Collarspace

Good day to any who take the time to read this.

I am a 42yo Bi WM bottomthat has never been sub to another man before. Now, I understand there is an inherent amount of submissiveness in being a bottom, but what I am referring to is more than just sex.

I am all about new experiences in life, in sex, in food, in everything. I have tried being top, and its mostly disappointing. When I am bottom though, I get the enjoyment of the pleasure happening, as well as the pleasure of someone else enjoying themselves.

So now, I have been lately feeling the need to expand on my limited sub experience. Bear in mind, I am Bi I like Men and Women both. I am also a Switch with Women, but primarily a Dom. I have subbed for a few women in the past, but only enough to start learning my boundaries. When I see the looks of pleasure on whatever Sub I am playing with, and the absolute ecstasy that they find in the comfort of being bound, gagged, and helpless against me, all the while giving me their trust that I will respect them and their limits, I want that. I want to know how it feels to surrender yourself to another, to be tied, bound and helpless, to feel the sting of the flogger with each strike pushing me closer to the subspace. and then to be used, Mouth and ass filled by cock and unable to do anything but trust the Dom to be gentle, to use plenty of lube, and experience that in the euphoria of my own head space.

And that in a nutshell is what I am searching for. Local Dom Tops, that would enjoy helping me explore my own limits as a sub and even expand them a bit.

I am not looking to be collared, or taken as a sub to one person. I am looking for playmates that can show me the different elements of BDSM play and allow me to choose my ownDom for whatever particular activity I want to engage in.