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Walcontra



What to know about me in a nutshell

1. Probably the most important thing to know about me Im not in any hurry and I refuse to settle. Ive spent enough of my life settling instead of waiting for what I really want. So I wont do it here. So if youre in any kind of hurry my advice is to skip me. Nothing personal. But I am taking everything slow.



2. I have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for bullshit. That should be made clear in advance. You will know where you stand with me. I dont have the patience for unnecessary crap.



3. I will expect some sort of verification that you are who you say you are. No exceptions. And yes, I am willing to do the same.



4. I will give you the exact same amount of respect you give me. I dislike rudeness from anyone, sub or not. I was rude to one person on CC a while back because their profile said they were into being talked down to and I didnt think being nice would get their attention. Still regret that. Unprovoked rudeness is a sign of weakness I.M.O.



5. If your profile contains the words bitch, brat, spunky, or adjectives of that vein we probably wont get along. I could be wrong, and I can admit when Im wrong, but its a gut feeling. Likewise if your profile or journal is a series of rants about people on CC Im guessing were not going to click. I have enough drama. I dont need yours.



6. Hard limits attempts to Dom me. Vomit. Blood. Piss. Shit. This includes diapers. Needles. Electricity. Anything that causes permanent injury.



7. Soft limits Not really a sadist. So if thats what your looking for, Im not your guy. I can handle discipline but even I have limits.



8. Preferences varies. Right now Im a fan of Dd. Also, I like different RP types. But I have a broad range of experience ranging from physical and mental bondage to obedience training to kings to even some Gor. Just because I dont mention it specifically doesnt mean I cant or wont do it. A lot of it depends on my subject.



9. Personal favorite taking some pretty young (or young at heart) thing and dirtying her up a little bit. I rule my little corner of the world and I like it that way. Again, a lot of my reaction depends on you. I can guide with a firm but loving hand or I can be a real son-of-a-bitch. It depends on what I need to get a point across.



10. More of an ass man that a breast one.



Anything else? Ask. Im pretty good about answering my mail most of the time.

WTF happened to the journals. I had MUCH more to say.
4/14/2018 7:03:16 AM
I just read a profile that said not to message if you lived in the South. She also said she wanted to live somewhere "people actually want to live".

Let's see... there's like 6 million people in metro Atlanta. Another 2 million in metro Birmingham. There's New Orleans, Nashville, Miami, Jacksonville, Charlotte...

I guess this dumb bitch failed geography.
4/5/2018 7:51:29 PM
Note to self: you forgot how temperamental some subs are. Bad mistake. 
3/26/2018 8:34:21 PM
There is ONE profile I keep going back to. ONE.

This profile is exactly what I'm looking for. Reading it, my profile is what this profile is looking for. Yet no mail gets read.

I definitely understand treading lightly online in this day in age. But I still can't figure out what's up.

Life suck sometimes.
3/25/2018 6:55:34 PM
I've gotten into the habit of actually using the notes section (that part where you can make yourself notes on profiles you look at). Not sure if it's used that much or not. Anyway, I seem to be typing "bitchy" a lot lately. Wonder if I'm looking at the wrong profiles.
3/24/2018 9:08:48 AM
1. You don't talk like most doms I know.

Maybe not, but I talk like most doms I know RT. Maybe I'm just different from the online variety.

2. Would you consider someone from another country?

Sure. I'm in no hurry so we could both be sure before we talk about re Just as long as her English is decent. My Spanish sucks, my French is non-existent, and everything else is even worse.

3. How big is your cock?

Big enough for you to choke on.

4. You seem interesting but I'm only into younger guys/guys closer to my age.

Just because I'm an old dog doesn't mean I can't still bury a bone.

5. Why are you so cautious?

Because I've lived long enough to know bad things happen when you jump into things. It's a quick way for your face to end up on a milk carton (do they still do that?).

6. I couldn't be with someone who voted for <insert politican's name here>.

Then fuck off? I vote issues, not people or parties. And I don't tend to judge people based on that. I have no problem with a debate (ask me about abortion... I can debate BOTH sides with equal effectivness) but I'm not married to many of my ideas.

7. I don't respond to people without a pic/without a pic of their face.

That's your right and I accept that. Unless your pic is a cartoon or a meme. In which case I'm laughing at you.

8. What song are you listing to right now?

"Last Caress" by The Misfits.

9. Racial preferences?

Hmmm... good question. Probably white/caucasian would be 1st choice. Asian 2nd. Hispanic 3rd. Black/AA. But don't let that dissuade anybody. Definitely not a deal breaker.

10. What do you think is the best trait a sub could have?

The ability to know when to STFU. My life can be hectic and chaoitic (like most people's). Sometimes I just want quiet. Just sitting there with a daughter's head in my lap letting me stroke her hair would ease a lot of tension once in a while. "If you can't see the bright side I will sit with you in the dark" holds a lot of meaning at times.
3/23/2018 9:34:43 PM
Collarspace reminds me of the Island of Misfit Toys...
3/18/2018 10:36:32 PM
I guess one of these days I'm going to have to break down and actually put down EXACTLY what I'm looking for.

For those of you who have been checking out the profile *thumbs up*. I'm pretty good about answering. If I don't it's usually because it went to bulk (and yes, I actually check bulk once in a while).

I tend to dislike rudeness even in myself. So if I'm rude, it bothers me. We are our own worst critics. Not only that, I feel that if I want someone to call me 'Master' (or Sir, Daddy, etc.) I have to constantly work on mastering myself. But then again, don't we all?
3/17/2018 9:07:10 AM
I keep seeing the word "real" used a lot. Submissives are looking for "real" doms. Doms are looking for "real" submissives. Slaves are looking for "real" slavery.

Let me clue you in on something people: "real" isn't real. At least not in this case. You're trying to turn something abstract into something concrete. "Real" is like "beauty"- in the eye of the beholder.

Subs, if I put 10 of you in a room and asked you what a "real" dom was, I won't say I'd get 10 different answers, but I wouldn't get one single. Same with doms. I don't let my group off the hook.

To some, online is real enough but to others an online relationship isn't "real". Some have limits while there are others who think limits means you're not a "real" submissive. D/d, M/s, D/l, or M/l aren't "real" doms to some but are to others.

It's been my experience that people, doms and subs, who are using the word "real" to put down someone that wants something they don't want or isn't willing to give what they desire. Sad but true. But here's a clue: it only makes you look like an asshole. And you can fulfill your role without that.

Sorry, but I've seen that word so much it's become cliché. You can disagree on what is "real", but no one made you the sole judge of.

Just my opinion. Your mileage may vary.


3/11/2018 3:31:43 PM
Where did "Walcontra" come from?

It's short for something. And no, I won't tell you what. Though I will give you a hint: I'm still trying to decide if the going up is worth the coming down.
3/8/2018 5:27:36 PM
This place makes my head hurt...
3/1/2018 2:53:59 PM
Let's just go ahead and get this out of the way 1st...

If you're profile or journal is full of complaints about how you disapprove of something someone else did, we probably won't get along. I have enough drama in my life. I don't need yours too.

No, I will not put up pics unless I choose to share them with you. You don't want to show me any either? That's fine. The only time I would ask for one anyway is to see if you could produce another one that looks like the same person.

If you're looking for money, I ain't got it.

If your profile contains the word "brat", "bitch", "snarky", "sarcastic", "spunky", or any other adjective in this group I'm probably not who you want to talk to. Could be wrong, sometimes we aren't as good a judges of ourselves as we like, but it's a gut feeling I have.

Want to know something? Ask. I'll give you the exact same amount of respect you give me.

Don't send me a 1 line email and get pissed off when that's all you get in reply. Especially if it's obvious you didn't even read the profile.
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 Age: 40
 US & UK, Illinois