Collarspace

A quote We didnt see the seven mountains ahead of us. We didnt see how they are always ahead, always calling us, always reminding us that there are more things to be done, dreams to be realized, joys to be rediscovered, promises made before birth to be fulfilled, beauty to be incarnated, and love embodied. We didnt notice how they hinted that nothing is ever finished, that struggles are never truly concluded, that sometimes we have to re-dream our lives, and that life can always be used to create new light. This is the song of the circling spirit, for all of us who never see the seven mountains of our secret destiny, who never see that beyond the chaos there can always be a new sunlight.Ben OkriA true dom searching for a slave or submissive. I seek a relationship. Someone to share life with. I am all the things everyone else is on here...haha...intelligent, funny, kind, harsh, experienced, handsome, professional career, smart...oh wait..that is the same as intelligent...did I say handsome? ok..very handsome...haha. What is a relationship? I am not married (pun intended) to any one definition. I am of an age and status in life that I am open to different definitions. i am single and fully capable of having one live with me. But that is not a requirement.

I seek that blend of vanilla life with Ds life. And it is not easy to find that one who is attractive on both spectrums. But I keep trying. I am often asked what is my favorite activity. In all honesty, I dont have one. While I enjoy a lot of the basics - bondage, spanking, anal, humiliation etc - what I really enjoy is control. It is this exchange, the transfer of her will to My will which makes me tick. Once achieved, I am pretty open to limits. I respect hard limits one might have, and each is different, and like to push the soft limits to discover what works and what doesnt, for both of us. Would I like someone with no limits? yes that would be nice, the ultimate test of trust. But not really practical. I am capable of inflicting pain, I am capable of being sadistic, but I would not describe myself as a sadist. I have proven equally capable of being very un-sadist-like in a relationship. Whatever we do, I wish intensity. My ultimate friend would be one who is as intelligent, or more, as me, laughs a lot, is independent, has a career, but craves to be controlled and to please her One. The of that pleasure is for us to define. Well, more Me than you, but you know what I mean!I would prefer local since I want real physical contact, but have come to recognize that limiting the search to geographic, age, or whatever is missing the point. she may be anyone anywhere. So I remain open to chatting with anyone to see what might come of it. Unfortunately, many of you ladies have many criteria which you use to filter, which I sortof understand given the amount of email you receive, but recognize that I am a pretty special person who you really should spend a small amount of your time to get to know.you make Me think. you make Me breathe. you turn My head. you focus My eyes. Always willing to chattalk with any sub or slave and that includes possible online Ds relationships. I search for real time but in the meantime I am pretty open. Please do not misinterpret this as player, I am not. An observation of my time here. I have been on and off here over the years. I have talked to a few, met a few and had a couple of relationships spawned here. So not all bad. However lately I have noticed an increase in fakes. What makes a fake? Really bad English. Yahoo email addresses. Looking to be owned and moved at masters cost immediately. Cities and states not making sense. And the list goes on. Too bad cause there are actually some real people here. Just getting harder to find them. A little something to stimulate thought666 is no longer alone,Hes getting out the marrow in your back bone,And the seven trumpets blowing sweet rock and roll,Gonna blow right down inside your soul,Pythagoras with the looking-glass, reflecting the full moon,In blood, hes writing the lyrics of a brand new tune,And its hey babe, with your guardian eyes so blue,Hey my baby, dont you know our love is true,Ive been so far from here,Far from your loving arms,Now Im back again, and baby its going to work out fine.Cant you feel our souls igniteShedding ever changing colours, in the darkness of the fading light.Like the river joins the ocean, as the germ in a seed growsWe have finally been freed to get back home.