6/10/2023 7:38:14 AM: Actively seeking domestic help.  Any gender,  or age. Must be comfortable around nudity, and kink. This would involve light housework,  laundry, etc.  VERY flexible hours. This would be mutually benefitial. Seeking service oriented individuals. 

10/12/2022 1:01:36 PM: Lonely Widow Seeks.......... That was the profile caption, I read that before I read the email. That little voice warned me, it kept telling me, don't do it, you'll regret it. I listened to that little voice and replied back, that she seemed very nice and that I wasn't looking for any kind of relationship, and she could find much nicer guys on non sex sites.  She quickly responded she just wanted to make for lost time, and needed something physical.  I moved on to her pictures, a very slim, very toned mid-60's GILF. I ignored conventional wisdom and agreed to meet her. I continued fucking her a few times a year for a few years, after she got clingy, I backed way off. After ghosting her for over a year, she wanted to know why I was no longer sleeping with her.  I used kink as a crutch and told her I was in a relationship and exploring kink.  She wanted examples, , so I sent some pics of bondage, she said she was all in. Since that didn't work, I  I sent her pictures of watersports. I wasn't even into watersports I never actually got it, but again she was all in. Now I was curious, now I kinda wanted to do it.  So the next time I saw her, I led her into the bathroom put her on her knees in the shower and covered her in a golden shower. When I was done, she immediately started sucking. After a minute or two, I realized I wasn't quite done, so I worked up a little more, and no reaction, she just kept sucking. I started wondering if I even peed at all or if it was such a small amount she didn't notice. Now I was determined and managed a little more, this time I was sure I peed and I was sure she had to notice, but no reaction, she just kept sucking, didn't even break her pace.  I was now confused. Nothing was said about it, until I was getting up to leave, she asked where I was going, I said I have to pee before I get dressed.  She got out bed, got on her knees and said you can pee right here. I loved how that felt. It's just over 48 hours until I see my little piss whore, and I can't wait.  I think my plan backfired. 

10/10/2022 8:05:29 AM: I give up trying to add pictures to this site. I've tried several times, and they just don't appear. PASENSUALDOM on fetlife, which is a working functional website. I have pics there and plan on adding more this weekend.  I reply to all emails here and there, but prefer there. 

1/10/2018 12:40:11 PM: Domme in training: Met up with friend from the swing set of friends and she had more than passing interest in this site. I set up a play date with sub friend, but told the sub friend very little. We'll call my swinger friend Jackie. Jackie showed up right on time, about 90 minutes after we got there. (We'll call my sub friend Heather)  I had Heather tied to the bed and blindfolded. She knew we were getting company, that's all she knew. Jackie had queening as a hard limit on this site. I don't know that she knew what it was, so obviously that was the first thing I had her do was Queen Heather. Heather couldn't get enough, she devoured Jackie's pussy and ass, it was so much fun watching, I joined in also kneeling over Heather's hungry mouth and made out with Jackie.  One of the few Jackie's dislikes was fisting, I'd be the wrong first for this, but Jackie? her hands like the rest of her were tiny. She was perfect. I showed her how to begin slowly and work more and more in. Within 10 minutes Heather was cumming and squirting uncontrollably, afterwards she said she NEVER had a string of orgasms and never squirted before, but she was hooked. The rest of the day is a little fuzzy (we started drinking early), The only other thing I really remember is cumming in Jackie's mouth, who then fed it to Heather, while she was still tied to the bed. I don't know what happened to Heather, we've lost contact, but Jackie and I still have adventures, those typically involve her single girlfriends from the swinger scene.  Not as fun, but still fun. 

1/10/2018 12:17:27 PM: This might help you understand me. Ten years ago I was in the middle of a divorce, and  I turned to social networking and ended up on a site that was somewhere between facebook and a dating site. I started corresponding with a girl and the first thing she said about herself was that she was submissive. It resonated that, that was the FIRST thing she said, so I did a few searches and ended up finding her profile on THIS site, although it was collarme at the time. I knew NOTHING about any of this, I knew I had Dom tendencies, but I was also very much a pleaser, with no sadistic tendencies, I started communicating with a very experienced Domme, and she assured me, the pleaser qualities were exactly what was going to make me a fantastic Dom. I ended up dating the single girl for several months. The Domme was right, my sub girlfriend would get LITERALLY dripping wet getting spanked, the longer and harder the sessions, the more she'd soak anything under her. Early on, she told me she'd never be able to go back to vanilla. I now know what she meant by that. I'm locked out of my original profile on here, but anytime I take several months off from this site, I find myself right back again.  I'm looking for something less than a relationship, but possibly more than a one time play session.  A FWB that lived nearby would be ideal.