Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I’m a lifelong Dominant male with an absolute passion for all things Domination and submission.  Like you I'm sure, the vanilla experiences in my life just seemed to leave too many of those empty spaces in me emotionally and physically.  Since fully embracing the lifestyle, I have had fun experiences with some really great people.  But I've reached the point where I must move past the point of looking for a hookup or getting together for what turns out to be just another flat scene.  A true Dom must know, like a one sided coin, his fate will be unfulfilled desire and he will never achieve the intense connection and passion required without a matching submissive flip side of the coin.

As with all healthy relationships, I have come to understand true mastery of a submissive takes place by building an emotional connection based on trust and commitment and is developed over time.  Not just by simply wielding a flogger or paddle, it comes from learning to appreciate the most profound levels of her psyche, which will only be understood by developing a proper foundation of honesty, trust and dedication to her inside and outside of the lifestyle. 

I am an educated, hopefully arrogance free, responsible and patient Dom, financially stable with my own home and career.  Experienced, imaginative and educated in the lifestyle.  I’m interested in thoroughly exploring the gift of submission with a rare woman and bear the weight of the challenge.  A woman who is truly conscious of her need to surrender control of her mind, body and soul and who expects to be respected, treasured and protected in return.  A woman who has the strength to trust, a craving to be mastered and is ready to discover, or rediscover, the powerful bond and true freedom and security submission can bring. 

My lifestyle conventions, preferences and talents are broad and vary. They range from sensual and informal Domination to high protocol and intense creative sessions designed to exercise, discipline, reinforce and instruct.  I don't know everything.  I am always learning and am not perfect, but I strive to give my best always.  I am on the same journey of enlightenment you are on.  Safe, sane and negotiated consensual practices always.  

If these words resonate with you at all, I encourage you to contact me.  Lifestyle experience is not necessary but enthusiasm for submission is required.  The dings and dents you have are understood and expected.  I enjoy meeting new people whether online or real time and would be happy to chat about all things lifestyle related.  New friends are always welcome.

Please have something of consequence to discuss if you decide reply.  One line responses probably will not be given much attention but all conscientious messages will.

For those serious about the lifestyle, I'll enjoy hearing from you.