It's difficult to find what I'm looking for in the vanilla world because of my level of kink, but then it's also difficult to what what I want in the kink world because of my level of vanilla.   That being said, it's far easier to explain to a kinky woman that you want good conversation and dates than it is to explain to a vanilla girl that there will be marks and yes, this will hurt.

I'm a professional by day and love the standard issue items that come with it: bespoke suits, shoes, ties, wine, dining, etc.

I also love a great conversation while playfully shoving ice cream in each other's noses, complete openness in a relationship,  and snuggling after very VERY rough sex.  

Please understand, I'm not looking for a slave in public (though a touch of submission throughout the entire relationship spectrum is prime).  I want someone with a good personality, motivation, inspiration, and intelligence for all the vanilla I enjoy. . .and someone who cherishes her marks as mementos and loves getting roughed up in between the sheets.  

If you see this before I see you, feel free to reach out.

I don't bite until we're home.