I'm looking for a submissive, cuckold, or switch who is intelligent, educated and successful for a LTR. 

About me I identify as a dominant cisgendered white female. But I am not only a dominant woman- I am an immigrant, a medical professional, a huge scifi fantasy nerd. I am active in my  community. BDSM is just one aspect of my whole self, it is not the only part of me.

Ive been active in BDSM since high-school with breaks trying to hope that vanilla relationships would cure me of the kink. Spoiler alert they didnt.

I have found (mostly) an acceptance and enjoyment of my kinky self. It still takes a lot of trust for me to show that part of myself to someone, so most likely you wont find me doing pickup play. Since so much of kink is mental for me, I feel like I dont have the same experience if I dont connect intellectually with someone.

BDSM for me is less about the equipment and individual fetishes and more about getting inside someones head. There is nothing like the feeling of someone melting when you whisper to them about how you plan to use them. To me kink is about how it feels to create shared space together. I love the electric feeling I get when someone submits to me. I hit top space hard.