I am a submissive male who is currently committed to a dynamic with a domme. I am however, considering finding a nesting partner relationship who is at least kink and ENM friendly, preferably one who is a non-professional (femme-presenting) dominant looking for an in-person, female-led relationship.

I returned to the BDSM/kink community in 2020 after marriage and raising a family. Since then, I've been very active in my local kink community, attending and volunteering at events such as play parties, munches and conferences.

I am looking to grow beyond individual play-oriented sessions. I'm seeking a relationship, something that develops, that evolves over time. I wish to really get to know someone in both vanilla and D/s contexts.

Playwise, I'm experienced in quite a few kink activities and have an open experimental mindset. The specific activities aren't so much important to me as much as the "connection" or energy dialogue that happens. That said, I'm not seeking a "fetish dispenser": I'm looking for a relationship first, NOT some long 24/7 play session.

My limits are not unusual and include involving non-consenters, scat, fin. play, serious injury, and death. I have some softer limits - activities for which I would require a high degree of trust to be present. These include blood, permanent marks, and body modification.

In addition to submissive and bottom, I also identify as a sufferer (masochist), primal prey, plaything, and (human) pet.

I also crave to be of service. I'm a talented cook and good at cleaning and other domestic duties. I've been told I'm good at massage (especially feet). I'm teaching myself to do pedicures and leather care.

Feel free to contact me if this is something you might be interested in exploring or chatting. Please note that I'm not seeking a long-distance relationship -- please be more often than not within the Greater Seattle area.