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Control is something that I have always loved in any relationshipdynamic. More than that, its something that I need and will seek out. I want to possess someone. Not a part of them, or even most of them, but all of them. This totality of control is what I have craved since I first discovered my kinky side, and I have slowly been working towards its reality. I have had dynamics in the past, but I hope to find this extreme in my next one. The desire to submit is therefore the necessart compliment to my need to control. This desire needs to be something more than the bedroom, it should be a deep seated need to give over your life to the will, guidance, structure, and domination of another. It is particularly excellent if this desire is driven by service to another!
This depth is not reached instantly, easily, or without risk. It takes time, knowledge gained through communication and experience, and a mutual vulnerability. Where it can end is in a place of unequal symbiosis, with me leading from above and you following from below. Both of us content and fulfilled.
I always welcome good conversation, which requires two interested and curious parties learning about each other! If more comes from that...sweet!
A little more about me if youre still reading! I love board games, nerdy comversations, good grammar, being spoiled (particularly by massages), am reconnecting with my joy of the outdoors, baseball, movies, and video games. My desires definitely fit into the TPE and CNC realms, and if you dont know what that means Im happy to educate!
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Dominants and slaves (submissives if you prefer that title) are a symbiotic relationship. Each needs the other in order to create a fulfilling dynamic.
Slavery (and service) is not a state of body, it is a state of mind, and a state of being. It does not depend on leashes, cuffs, whips, or any such toys. Rather it is born from a a dedication of the mind and heart to the will, structure, and desires of one above you. This is not a simple life to learn, but a complicated one. It takes effort, curiosity, and sincere dedication day in and day out, both to serve, and to control.
Here for the conversation. Feel encouraged to message if youd like to discuss any of the following topics
Power dynamics (TPE, Ms, etc)
Gender roles in the modern age
Science fiction anything
Rope
Thanks for the quick look!
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