Collarspace

I assure you I am quite real.

Looking for a woman who is into private degradation and humiliation...Im into the use, control, humiliation, degradation and objectification of female subs and slaves.

Now that Ive dispensed with the BDSM Ds or whatever-you-want-to-call-it rhetoric, and since youve read this far, Id like to speak more candidly, with little to no self-editing. My hope is that it will help clarify who I am, what Im looking for, and whether I am for real and truly trustworthy. Its clich, but the truth is meeting someone here for what I have in mind requires a lot of trust and maybe even a small leap of faith. I hope my efforts below will help narrow that chasm.
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A little about me?

Physically, Im about 60 and 210 lbs. I have short SP hair (Since my 20s) and blue eyes. I have an athletic build. In the looks department, Im not drop dead gorgeous butIm not Quasimodo swinging from the bell rope either. I look good dressed up or in jeans and a polo shirt. I have a calm and quiet demeanor but tend to crack more jokes and reveal myself further as I get to know someone. Intellectually Im erudite and well read the rest, youll have to decide that one for yourself.

What brings me here?

This one I can go on on about. In a nutshell, Im your average guy on the outside who holds a dark secret on the inside. Though I believe I am fundamentally a good and respectful person, I long to explore and experience socially unacceptably kinks. Specifically, I enjoy and fantasize about humiliating and degrading submissive women. Perhaps thats a little misleading. Ideally, Id like to find someone who, like me, harbors a darker side that is at odds with their everyday outwardly image. And so by submissive I dont mean someone who is a doormat or suffers from low self-esteem, just someone who wishes to play that role in the bedroom (or any other private room for that matter).

Am I looking for a partner and or a long-term relationship?

Yes and no is my best and most honest answer. I know, its vague and rather lame. Truth is, I have plenty of friends and a healthy romantic life. It is my erotic life, so to speak, that I wish to address here. If you too are looking to reveal and explore a hidden side of yourself with someone who can be trusted to be discreet with your privacy and respectful of your limits, lets talk. And should we be compatible and you wish to make it a regular arrangement, then thats where the yes part of my answer comes into play. If it comes to the point we can merge our two lives then Im all for it.

Sounds like youre looking for desperate housewives?

No, not necessarily. But I will not judge or discriminate against them. Perhaps that makes me a bad person. But if you feel that way, why did you read this far? Wasnt the quasi-misogynist rhetoric above enough of a clue? Frankly, I dont much mind if youre involved and wish to remain that way just as long as you are mine during our sessions.

What will you discriminate against then?

Appearance, This isnt about body, Im not here looking for a life-partner. Im looking for a fucktoy and it generally helps when it is attractive. If that wasnt bad enough, Id also like it to be in around my age or younger, say between 18-55. Now, if youre a tad over that, but can satisfy the first condition, lets talk. As for what it takes to satisfy the first condition, weighing less than me is a good start. Yeah, thats right, I said it. I can be an asshole, but I can be honest at the same time. If youre still not sure if you qualify, lets talk.

Alright, I get your modus operandi, but what about the specifics?

Youll specifically be required to serve orally. Frequently, very frequently alright, constantly. In fact, youll be expected to service and satisfy the whims and perversions of a twisted dominant.