I keep walking away from my Dominant side and attempt to be vanilla... and by and large I've succeeded.  However, in the last  year I nearly died from you know what and so am now looking to embrace my predilections.

Here's the thing, and I know from messages I've received that some don't believe it, but  whether I'm a Dom, Master or Sadist depends on the dynamic with the sub, slave or maso: with some people I can be a Sadist, with some I can't. It's about the level of trust that I truly feel has built up...the more the  compatibility and evidence of submitting from the other, the more up the scale I am - my Sadism has to be earned.  I do believe in and respect hard limits - this is part of the trust thing - and expect the same.

I do only see bio females and whether single or in vanilla marriages/LTRs, I'm happy to talk and see where it leads...any questions just ask me, I'm a broad church and not easily shocked.

I should add that I'm not into 'the scene', munches, etc... just interested in a meaningful arrangement with the right female submissive/slave/maso in the UK.

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