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Currently just looking but open to talking and learning and meeting new friends.

Hi Im a normal single guy (no kids) with a kinky side looking for a LTR with that elusive mix of BDSM and the vanilla within a FLR to share and explore the rich tapestry of life together with of course you always being at the centre. (And please no drama)

I should also mention that I neither smoke nor drink nor use drugs and only date non-smokers and social drinkers and non-drug users.

Ideally Im looking for that elusive relationship one that would seem to the outside world that you simply had a very caring, loving and attentive boyfriend and that only you and I would know the real truth about what happens in our heads and behind closed doors and share those knowing looks between us.

Openness, honestly, trust, great communication, and emotional intelligence are for me essential foundations in a good relationship

Im not new but would say I have limited experience of both BDSM and Female-led Relationships in the past. I have learnt that Im defiantly more of a subbottom than a slave.

As my profile name suggests I love the time I spend serving, pampering and generally making my Mistresss life easier because I know this makes both our lives better in many ways.

As a sub Im obedient attentive and listen carefully to instructions I tend not to need to be micro managed and have my Mistress continually looking over my work (unless of course this is what you want to do) in fact thinking about it I have to admit at times I do enjoying being stood over or watched and corrected whilst I work and then at times being ignored and made to feel invisible, insignificant, or being made to serve silently.

But ultimately play aside I want over time to be trusted to just get on with the task in hand and complete your instructions without stress or drama my ultimate goal would be over time to learn how to anticipate your needs and wants.

I enjoy fantasy and role play and will always dress to please (although Im not a sissy but Ive worn a few aprons in my time) I just know that this is not going to happen every night I could be serving you dinner whilst you relaxed on the sofa in your P watching TV be I want the dynamics to still be there.

I also know that sometimes we might just not be in the mood. (Although that is very rare for me) and if this were to happen a sharp reminder of my position in the relationship normal service will quickly be resumed.

I need a balance if we cant have a laugh and have fun together and enjoy walk, a film, cook a meal, a night at the theatre together or sit snuggling on the sofa talking about anything and everything then for me its simply not going to work.

Although I love that the cosy feeling could all change in an instant with a look or a change in voice and I would in an instant be in no doubt of my place even if there were a cheeky smile on your face.
Im not worried about experience Im looking for a good connection between us that can grow together.
So if youre an Intelligent articulate, sensual Mistress with a good sense of humour looking to develop a LTR with a loyal obedient sub and to share lifes ups and downs with we could be a match.

Limits

Im very open to trying new things with the usual no children animals and blood permanent marking etc.

Im not interested in cuckolding or forced bi and lots of pain is not my thing
Please note although have no problem with I also no interest with pro Domms or findoms its just not for me.