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Making your Female Led Relationship Agreement

Behavioural Contract

Consensual Slavery: The Legality and the Right to Give Up Your Liberties

We all make relationship agreements

Why don't more people make relationship agreements?

Making an agreement that works for both

The Preamble

Affirm your ideals

Affirm your faith, hope and/or guiding principles including your relationship strategy.

Make an agreement to review this agreement from time to time and to vow to it

Make your declaration of Female Leadership

Grant and limit responsibility and the authority as you want it

Decide how you are going to handle conflict and change

Decide what how you are going to handle non performance

Decide what how you are going maintain and grow your relationship

Decide what kind of formal rules, rituals and traditions you want

Keeping a vital relationship

If you are committed to level 4 FLR create an escape clause


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	I exist to serve Dominant Women who deserve to own a male slave. I do not exist to serve myself. I am what I am and cannot change what nature ordained I would be from birth to death. I care not what people think of me. I care only that a Dominant Woman will own me and put me to excellent use in her and others service. A consensual slave committed for a life of servitude being auctioned at a private venue with the proceeds going to the organisers. Salutations and good day to you Sovereign Mistress, This message also includes my collar-space profile In the circles that I have moved and lived in during my adult life to date, a ‘real’ traditional chattel subject (slave) like me does not normally negotiate its own slavery conditions. That is left to be negotiated between the present and future owner and the slave plays no part in the proceedings. My late owner a very intelligent Woman did not make provision for such a potential eventuality nor was I gifted to any of her friends in the event of her mental incapacity are death. So I have no choice but to do that task myself. This is about pure servitude not really about kink, fetish, and perversion and certainly not about sexual fulfilment in itself alone. I am often copied by plagiarists who copy and paste part are the whole of my profile because they are too lazy to make one themselves and because they cannot measure up. But I am seldom equalled in truthful content. What you read and see is what you get. Nothing more and nothing less! It highlights my experience and antecedents and skills. It I not a list of demands. Each owner will have different wants, needs and expectations of their humanoid property and so will impose their own mild, moderate, severe control regime upon that servile property. It is for that property to adjust and adapt to any new imposed owner regime. I hold dual nationality, American and British and so hold two passports. I am also wary of the fact that 95% of profiles on every single lifestyle website are of dubious authenticity. Nonetheless, it only takes one genuine Dominant Lady Owner; Couple are Family to own me. I cannot be utilized in any vanilla settings because being who and what I am I would not fit in well but am more used to being kept within lifestyle settings by previous owners choice. I am though adaptable to any new owner’s particular imposed regime. What you read below is how things once were not how they should are will be. It takes mutual trust and respect to further progression to its natural conclusion and at least two to three months minimum before anything can become real and operable. Nothing occurs in days are weeks. Consensual servitude is a grey area neither recognized nor illegal. One day hopefully, consensual chattel subject humanoids like me may be bought and sold at a licensed premises in the future just like any other business quite openly and not covertly as happens nowadays without power exchange. People should again be openly bought and sold with their own full cooperation. Not everyone is born to be free are entitled to be free. We who are nature’s evolved chattel subjects neither want are need freedom are human rights and civil liberties. They are contrary to out very psyche and such rights and liberties would only serve to hinder us in our role and purpose for which nature has preordained for us. MULTI SKILLED SERVILE NONENTITY Do you seek to be looked after in your life and also have your own home looked after also? Please do not waste our time if you have absolutely no legitimate interest whatsoever? I am quite proud of my birthright vocation and of my capability for sustained servitude for the direct benefit of those preordained to have legitimate right of power and control ownership of my servile anatomy. I also wish to make it quite clear that I am a celibate slave by choice and do wear a locked chastity restraint which is stainless steel except for when travelling by Air when it is plastic. This profile will only be of interest to those genuine dominant women who lead busy full time working lives within society. Women who have both the want and need to acquire and own by legal power exchange enactments over one are more subservient lesser mortals for the purpose of domestic servitude within their home and to be regarded has working animal chattels existing for their personal benefit and general well being. This has nothing whatsoever to do with sexual gratification but everything to do with voluntary servitude, loyalty, dedication and obedience to authority. I am a servant and not a a lover, spouse, friend, associate, colleague etcetera and so am set apart from normal society and have a place outside of normal social interaction relationships. My Employer/Adopter can actually consider me as being their own private property that exists to serve and obey them and work long hours for their benefit and comfort. Some people write of owning submissive, Well a submissive is a natural freeborn person and you cannot really own them unless they consent to become and remain that which Mother nature preordained me to be a natural servile nonentity otherwise known as a born slave. Each owner will be different in their approach and beliefs. Some will be mild, others moderate and some severe in how they think of, speak to and treat as servile nonentity. I am adaptable to new situations and control regimes and not stuck into one particular control regime. I relate my skills and experience below they are not demands as some would deliberately are mistakenly label them. Some equate a submissive with a slave and claim to own sub missives. But the two are radically different and poles apart in mindset. All slaves are submissive but most submissives are not slaves. A submissive is not owned and does not want to be. A slave wants and needs to be owned. A modern day consensual slave actually pays towards its own upkeep so its owner incurs no ownership costs in maintaining their chattel subject property. I do not obey the online demands of any person just because the style themselves a goddess, mistress, are whatever. I do not deal with the failed amateur actress pro domina’s or the silly Billy fin domino’s. Are the ludicrous online slaves which are a complete nonsense? I also have no desire to associate with anyone who does not know are cannot differentiate between a slave and a submissive. I am an experienced birthright vocation servant. I do not do this has a hobby are kink. I am a pay my own way servant and that does not imply paying pro domes. That means I pay my adopter/guardian for my board and lodging and utility bills up to no more than $1000 a month. I will pay a one off ownership payment of $5000 when legal documents are signed. I seek a live in, 24/7 situation where I am paid no salary whatsoever. I work variable but usually long hours each day. I receive no time off whatsoever because my type of servant gets no vacations. I already own my own home which can be rented out for long periods. I can and will relocate if required. I am a qualified Chef with a Diploma. I am a qualified Therapeutic Masseur with a Diploma and practice license. I am a qualified Gardener with a Diploma. I am a qualified Housekeeper having worked in hotels. I am a general handyman with certificates but never formally apprenticed in trades. I have been legally subject to voluntary power exchange enactments. I have legally consented to my human rights and personal freedom being withdrawn. I have signed a voluntary worker agreement with employment rights waiver. I have signed a durable power of attorney. I have signed one adult adoption agreement. I have undergone a legal name change chosen by my adopter/guardian. I have been tattooed with a small discreet ownership insignia. I was in a power exchange relationship has an owned live in male chattel subject. These legal power exchange enactments were a voluntary worker agreement with employment rights waiver, irrevocable general power of attorney, and adult adoption agreement. I was in service for 14 years 4 months until my lady owner’s sudden demise. I slept a rested in a locked cage at night in the otherwise empty closet space. I had to endure prolonged painful disciplinary sessions has required. I spend most of my time confined indoors and went out under escort. I was required to be completely naked and was shackled doing my housework. I visited the doctor and dentist each twice a year under escort. I have my own private source of regular income from a legacy which is controlled. I wore a locked collar and a locked made to measure chastity restraint device. I am adopted by a married couple both now deceased. I know nothing of my birth family. I deliberately shun making friends so that I can concentrate upon servitude. I have my own up to date comprehensive insurance policies. I regularly organized and prepared buffet luncheons, dinner and super parties. I regularly cooked normal breakfast, luncheon and dinner for my lady owner. My lady owner was a commercial lawyer. She owned me for many long years until her untimely and unexpected demise. She had neglected to make provision for my ownership transfer in the event of death is mental incapacity. I was treated at all times like owned property and kept under strict control. A close personal friend remained in the home supervising me until she got home. I have known since early childhood who and what I was but could not act upon it. I searched for many years before finding this lady who was very dominant. I have always felt ill at ease with freedom it does not suit my personality. I feel safer and much more secure in servitude than being in freedom. Exposure to freedom actually pollutes my psyche and depletes my submission. I thrive upon servitude and it completes me and so makes me feel valued and useful. You would have carte-blanche sovereign dominion over me to do has you please. I have no preference for single women are lady couples are families, with are without lifestyle oriented children. I have no preference for any sexual orientation, physical handicap, racial origin, religious persuasion, social class. If you have the want and need and are a genuine and recognized dominant women who would thrive and better herself by owning a real male slave chattel subject, servile nonentity beast then please do not hesitate to contact me so we can discuss the matter maturely. It is a decision that requires much thoughtful deliberation within you and in consultation with others also perhaps? Never a decision to be taken lightly because it is most certainly a life changing one. I seek to be owned by a no nonsense lady who is strict and expects and demands that her power exchange servant be hard working, trouble free, loyal and obedient, a none smoker and drinker and does not take illegal narcotics and who is also celibate. A servile nonentity that knows its place and so keeps its place beneath her authority. I am, chastity restrained by choice and enforcement but can still perform cunnilingus upon a dominant lady owner if required to do so. A lady who remains aloof and does not treat her servant has her spouse, lover, friend, and colleague, associate, confident. One who regards her charge has being just working animal in humanoid form. She should also expect an demand that her charge be a credit to her and ensures it never does anything to bring her into ridicule are disrepute so its public and private behaviour must be impeccable at all times as must its standard of servile workmansh If you are interested and few ever have been, then I would like to hear from you with a view to being owned in a power exchange enactment arrangement within 4 months are less. No endless online conversations but many meaningful telephone discussions and a meeting occurring has soon has is possible. All character references and background checks can be done after the initial meeting and such will only be on me not you. I can produce certain proofs at the meeting. No photographs will be sent until trust has been established between us. I have no preference for single women are lady couples are families, with are without lifestyle oriented children. I have no preference for any sexual orientation, physical handicap, racial origin, religious persuasion, social class. Once in your power and control I then do exactly has I am told but never before then. I must reiterate that this is not a fantasy role-play. It is a chosen lifestyle vocation and one held and chosen since childhood but not acted upon until adult life began. The photographs below with the exception of the first one are not of me. They are depictions be they staged are real of the lifestyle and activities in daily life occurrence within that lifestyle. I HAVE PHOTOGRAPHS BUT WILL NOT SEND THEM TO ANYONE UNLESS AND UNTIL TRUST IS ESTABLISHED AND DISCUSSIONS ARE FRUITFUL AND PROGRESSIVE. Kind regards, Spencer Howard (Brutus) named as such by my late lady owner. In order to assist with improving the female health and well being and to release a ladies stress and anxieties the slave must suffer pain and discomfort under humane an controlled conditions from time to time as required. Male Slave Bull whipped click on to view. Femdom - Outdoors Brutal Whipping NAKED MABNBEAST SLAVES FOR DOMINANT SADISTIC WOMAN. A NAKED NEGRO SLAVE APE KEPT IN ITS NATURAL ORDAINED STATE OF BEING AS IS TRADITIONAL AND SENSIBLE. own male slave beasts over time all naked, restrained and controlled. Thine should be the Queendom, the Power and the Glory. JESUS H CHRIST AS SOMEONE GONE MAD? A NEGRO SLAVE APE ON A GODDAMN SOFA! BEASTS SHOULD NEVER BE AFFORDED SUCH PAMPERED LUXURY IT SPOILS THEM. ANOTHER SLAVE SECURED TO REST BETWEEN HARD PHYSICAL LABOR. ANOTHER SLAVE LIVESTOCK BEAST IN ITS DESIRED REST POSITION BETWEEN LABOR. Consensual Slavery: The Legality and the Right to Give Up Your Liberties Let’s have a look at the 13th Amendment to the Constitution of the United States: Note that the Amendment is deliberately vague about anything to do with the freedom of consent to become and remain owned property and certainly does not prohibit that situation. Section 1. Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction. Section 2. Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation. The phrase “Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted…” simply translates to – “Slavery and involuntary servitude are illegal unless the court system (the state) makes it legal by criminal conviction or civil court order as in Adult Guardianship. n other words… “The state has the authority to enslave you simply by convicting you of a crime and sending you to private prison or requiring community service through state approved agencies.” The state can also authorise private individuals to own a slave on its behalf and even in partnership with it providing the individual has a written authority and been awarded a license to do so. Now we must understand that slavery in the United States was not legal or illegal until individual states made it so. Instead, it was just an accepted practice of common law brought over to the United States by the English settlers who were already accustomed to owning slaves. While southern states continued with their tolerance of the ownership of people (of any race or color) either through slavery or by indentured servitude (involuntary servitude), one by one the Northern states individually outlawed the practice, though this was not necessarily done by altruistic means as much as political ones. It is very important to understand the concept of freedom in this case. The colonists that inhabited the states as individual citizens had the freedom (the right) to own slaves and to indenture others for payment of debt. This was a right. It is also very important to understand that this right, as with all rights, was taken away from the individual people both when individual states outlawed the practice and when the Thirteenth Amendment was amended to the Constitution. Thus, the right to own slaves was turned into a privilege, and immediately revoked. Remember, a right is God-given. It is not something that can be legislated. It is freedom without oppression. Breathing is a right. Also remember that a privilege is not a right. A privilege is not a freedom. A privilege is a state sanctioned action, only allowable by state decree or with permission through license or legal statute. Driving is a privilege, revocable at any time by the state. The question here is not one of moral compass or civil right, but one of individual rights compared to state authority. This is a story of the state taking rights away from individual citizens, and creating a monopoly on slavery through it’s system of laws, as stated in section 2: “Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.“ It doesn’t matter what your personal opinion on the slavery issue is, it only matters that you understand that the state is now the slave owner instead of the individual citizen. Now, let’s examine the prison state that is America… The United States population accounts for approximately 5% of the world’s population. Yet, the United States holds 25% of the worlds prisoners in its prisons. That makes the good old U.S.A the #1 prison nation in the world! But, you see, that also makes the U.S.A. the #1 legal slave owner in the world… Do you remember when then Vice President Dick Cheney was indited along with Alberto Gonzalez for conflicts of interest in investing 85 million in private prisons? I guess you can’t indict a slave trader if he is operating within the permissions and full support of the United States government: Look, the politicians, courts, attorneys, lawyers, judges, and anyone else involved in this legalized human trafficking and slavery are not acting in the best interest of the people. They are simply compartmentalized cronies each contributing to a shameful slave and private prison business. And the court system is set up to ensure a constant influx of new slaves. What is even more disheartening is the fact that the majority of people subjected to this legalized slavery are not guilty of breaking the law, meaning they have done harm to others or their property. No, these state inducted slaves were guilty of “victimless crimes”, meaning that no one or their property was hurt. This means that the state is the “victim”. This means that a code, limit, statute, or other nonsensical legality (not law) was broken. This means that the government has set up a system in which it imprisons and enslaves good and innocent people for breaking its own outrageous rules. This means that for running a red light, you could become a slave too. This means that for holding up a sign in protest, you could become an involuntary servant to the government. Private prisons do pay their prisoners (slaves) for their work, to the tune of .30 – .60 cents per hour. This is a loophole to make the private prison business the cheapest labor in America. What is even more disheartening is the fact that the majority of people subjected to this legalized slavery are not guilty of breaking the law, meaning they have done harm to others or their property. No, these state inducted slaves were guilty of “victimless crimes”, meaning that no one or their property was hurt. This means that the state is the “victim”. This means that a code, limit, statute, or other nonsensical legality (not law) was broken. This means that the government has set up a system in which it imprisons and enslaves good and innocent people for breaking its own outrageous rules. This means that for running a red light, you could become a slave too. This means that for holding up a sign in protest, you could become an involuntary servant to the government. Private prisons do pay their prisoners (slaves) for their work, to the tune of .30 – .60 cents per hour. This is a loophole to make the private prison business the cheapest labor in America. Likewise, slavery was neither legal or illegal, it just was, until individual states outlawed it. Then this “amendment” came along and made it “illegal without permission” for all states, just like pot. All you have to do is run a state approved prison (pot pharmacy) and only conduct this slavery within its walls (pot clinic/pharmacy/store) to make it legal slavery (medical marijuana). The concept to comprehend here is God’s law or common law – meaning most prisoners did not break this law, which states “do not do harm to others or their property”. Instead, they have committed “victimless” crimes (the STATE is the victim – like running a stop sign) which makes them eligible for slavery in private prisons per the 13th Amendment (and some of those prisoner/slaves are only guilty of smoking a joint). Marijuana is illegal without a (state approved) doctors preion, making it legal for state approved persons by state approved distributors. Slavery is illegal without a judges (the STATE’S) preion (permission), making it legal for state approved institutions to have slaves which are state approved (condemned) individuals. This fact excludes consensual slaves but even they and their owners must first sign legally binding power exchange documents that take away the human rights and civil liberties of the consenting Adult and transferring those same rights and liberties to the owner and/are state to act and make decisions on the slaves behalf. I don’t know how I can make this any clearer! This system of outsourcing prisoners to privately held corporate prisons, only induces “the state” to produce more victimless (innocent) state appointed criminals in order to produce more prisoners (slaves) for the state sanctioned legal slave trade that our government has the monopoly on through its 13th Amendment to the constitution. And one last thing… community service is not for the benefit of the community. It is the temporary indenturing of code violators who haven’t harmed anyone but the state. The only “community service” you are allowed to participate in are state sanctioned organizations or corporations which serve the state or are non-profit in name only, receiving large sums of contracted money for your service. This is not constitutional or lawful. It is slavery hidden behind a corrupt charitable FOR PROFIT company who uses your state approved enslavement as positive public relations in a public-private-partnership with the government. The 13th Amendment is unconstitutional. It must be abolished, as must legalized state sanctioned slavery. Please pass this on , for if we do not liberate our brothers and sisters out of this legal slave trade now, we may soon find that the only job choices left in America are prison guards or involuntary servants.

12/19/2016 6:27:32 AM

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12/19/2016 6:12:22 AM

You might think this is silly but we all make relationship agreements. Most often these agreements are made in exclusive relationships or a relationship where two people are moving in with each other. The vows couples take in marriage are agreements as well. Most agreements we make in relationships are verbal. Recently we have seen people, particularly men, protecting themselves with a prenuptial. Agreements are only as good as the people who make them and their ability to enforce the non performance clause with remediation. This article addresses level 2-4 FLR

. If you have chosen a level 1 or do not desire a FLR you will need a more traditional agreement which you can find at marriage partners

"We haven't had classes on building harmonious relationships in our schools. In order to establish a truthful intimate and fulfilling relationship between yourself and someone you care about, you must negotiate a mutual gain in the important issues of your life." - divorce mag

There is not much solid data but there may be many reasons women and men choose not to make formal relationship agreements. Formalized relationships seem less like falling in love. Most people get into relationships because they become passionate about each other and have chemistry. It seems so complicated. Matters of the heart are hard to govern. Faith-based relationships already have rules don't they? If he loves me he will naturally do what I want. We as people are most hopeful and often disappointed.

The process of making an agreement begins when both parties tell what they want from their relationship and how they see life direction going for the couple. Assuming you created astrategy for your relationship

, you can use elements of your strategy as broad paragraph headers and write how you want to move closer to those ideals. Then take the time to decide who is responsible for what so you can make progress; and how you are going to communicate progress/change/failure. All relationships agreements need a way to deal with non performance.

Title: Relationship Agreement. This agreement is about how we want to proceed as a couple. We ______________ and ________________ (your names) enter into this agreement on ________________________ (date) together. We want this agreement to be the guiding principles for our relationship and reflect our design for the ideal relationship we are working for. This agreement is for a period of __________ (1 day, 1 month, 1 year, 5 years).

If you have not yet done so take the time to create a list of what make a relationship ideal for each of you and together decide what you would like to include in your agreement. These should be broad ideas. Be sure not to get overly specific.

We affirm that our ideal relationship includes ____________________________ and does not include _________________________.

Faith, hope and guiding principles acts as the moral compass you are using to direct your lives. It might be something directly aimed at your relationship or broader. [Examples: We believe we are better as a couple than we are apart. We believe we are on the earth to make it a better place to live. We believe our mission in life is to promote opportunities for women to lead. We believe we are setting a new social norm.]

We affirm our ______________ (faith or guiding principles) in that we believe _____________________________________

This will bring you both closer together. All agreements need a way to be reexamined / adjusted and a way to reaffirm that you still believe in them. There is no better way than having a way to affirm, review and make changes.

We agree to meet as a couple each ______________ (month, quarter, year) to read and make adjustments to this agreement. We further agree that at points of stress _____ (she, he any) may call for a meeting to read and make adjustments. Further, after making changes we agree to verbally affirm our agreement.

We declare and affirm our belief that a female led relationship is right for us. As such we have agreed that the role of the woman in our relationship is ______________ (leader, head, superior*) and the role of the man is __________________ (supportive, follower, servant, inferior**)

*Don't be afraid of the word "superior" Tt does not affirm that women are superior just that there is a hierarchy of decision-making. **Inferior does not describe a person or gender here but a hierarchal relationship.

You will need to choose how to divide the food groups leadership and other areas of life she or he will control or share; and how you intend to protect the non-leader by limiting the decision making power of the leader. Votes and vetoes can be listed her as well.

We agree that she will lead/control/manage __________________________________________ (list the food group) and he will lead/control/manage _______________________________ (list the food group or enter "not applicable"). They both will share management of ____________________________ (list the food group or enter "not applicable"). She is limited by/to ______________________________________ (or just insert the words "no limits imposed" if there are none). He is limited by/to ______________________________________. They are limited by/to ___________________________________ or otherwise agree to make decisions equally by vote.. If you have vetoes list them here.

We agree that, should conflict arise, we will first attempt to work it out by conversing together. If needed, we will create a formal document where the conflict is registered and the remediation is written. Should that fail, we are committed to enter into mediation with a mutually agreeable third party (in level 2-4 you may grant the final word to her). Both of us commit to learning from our conflict by making changes to this agreement and our communication in an attempt for less conflict in the future.

Remediation (remedy) is a solution to the problem most often characterized by a penalty. You will need to spend some time thinking about roles here. Think about corrective action, punishment, and how to terminate this agreement.

In the event of non performance, we agree to remediation. Remediation include the reading of this agreement where the non performance has occurred, the agreement by both parties that non performance has occurred, and the submission of either or both parties to the consequence of non performance. Further this document may be reviewed and amended upon non performance after the consequence/remediation administered, if called for by the non offending party to call out the non-performance in more detail. Failure to accept complete remediation will make this agreement null and void.

Non performance remediation for the man is ________________________________________ and may also include ______________________________________ (add an attachment if needed). The remedy will be administered no less than ___________________ (1 minute, 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week) after non-performance has been called and documented. Further, if the non-performance offense is of sufficient weight for the woman to lose confidence in her leadership, she may call for ________________________________________________

Non-performance remediation for the woman is ________________________________________ and may also include ______________________________________. The remedy will be administered no less than ___________________ (1 minute, 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week) after non performance has been called and documented. Further, if the non performance offense gives sufficient to cause for the man to lose confidence in her leadership she/he may call for ________________________________________________

We agree we want to keep our relationship vital by ________________________________________________________________________________ together

If you are going to have ceremony and/or formal rules, list them here so if they are broken you can recognize non-performance, show documentation, and seek remediation. Think this over as a starting point to solving your ideal relationship deltas. Some examples ceremonies: Exchanging/giving vows based on this agreement; A ceremony formally celebrating his acknowledgement of her leadership; A surrender ceremony celebrating his release of control; A commencement ceremony to begin FLR. Some rules examples: He will remain humble and teachable; He will cease looking at any kind of porn; He will obey her at all times. Some examples of traditions: As a sign of respect for her leadership, he will defer to her in public situations. As a sign of their FLR, he will always refer to their relationship as Mrs. and Mr. As a sign of his respect for her leadership, he will openly acknowledge her leadership. As a sign of obedience, he will kneel before her on command. Remember, he has a fantasy and you may, too. This is where you can play up to that if you are willing.

We agree to celebrate these ceremonies as cherished _______________________________________________________ (see attachment for ceremony details). We agree to the following formal rules ____________________________________________________________ (see attachment for ceremony details). We agree to the following traditions _______________________________________ (see attachment for details)

This can include measureable time together/apart, pursuit of hobbies and interests, including/not including friendships and family, workshop, seminars, vacations, showing appreciation, anniversaries, dating and focus time as examples.

We agree we want to keep our relationship vital by ________________________________________________________________________________ together

We agree to the following escape clause in the event that he cannot perform: 1. A safe word. 2 A safe gesture. One each for pause and stop. His safe word for pause is _______________________, His safe gesture for pause is ______________________. His safe word for stop is ___________________. His safe gesture for stop is ________________________. She maintains the right to proceed if the pause safety is reported when she feels she needs to push boundaries. Any time the stop safety is reported, she will stop, investigate injury, and seek immediate medical attention at his request. If stop is used, and no injury reported this agreement is null and void

12/19/2016 6:11:21 AM

Quite early on in our FLR we realised that we needed to absolutely clear about what behaviours were good and which were unacceptable. Having read some examples over on Chastity Mansion, we had a go at putting a contract together which we would then both agree on and do our best to abide by. We found it to be an interesting and cathartic exercise. We have recently made some changes.

Behavioural Contract

This contract has been created to provide the foundation for our Female Led Marriage. It is not exhaustive by any means and is intended to be a living document to which we both can contribute at any time. It sets out the expectations of behaviour, roles as they currently stand and mechanism for discussions between us.

Definitions

'Chastity' The control of the submissive's orgasms not exclusively referring to the wearing of a device.

'Chastity Device' Any Device the 'Mistress' requires the submissive to wear to prevent genital touching, masturbation and to exercise Her control of the submissive's penis

'Reward' Any gift given to the submissive by the Mistress

'Training / Discipline' Any act perpetrated by the Mistress for Her amusement and / or to modify the submissive's behaviour in line with the Mistress' wishes. Also includes activities designed to re enforce submission.

'Required Behaviour List' Behaviours that the Mistress/KH wishes to see in the submissive. This may be modified at anytime by the Mistress

'Punishment' Any corrective activity carried out to punish transgressions.

'Maximum Denial' This period is exclusively decided by the Mistress.

'Excluded Behaviours List' Specific behaviours that the Mistress/KH wishes the submissive to refrain from. This may be modified at anytime by the Mistress

'Mistress' Key holder, Goddess, Wife, Owner, or any person granted rights over the submissive by the submissives' owner

'Owner' The owner of the submissive also referred to as the KH, Mistress and Wife

Term of the Contract: In Perpetuity with regular review by both KH and sub.

Key Holder:

1. The KH will always have the key under Her supervision or will provide plastic numbered locks as appropriate

2. The KH will treat Her property with respect

3. The KH will regularly inspect the submissive to ensure health issues are not developing. This is a joint responsibility as the submissive is also responsible for bringing issues to the KH's attention.

4. The KH will determine the time, place and method of any ejaculations for the submissive.

5. The KH may use the submissive for any sexual act She chooses

6. The KH will be mindful of the needs of the submissive with regards to professional work and public duties

7. The KH will ensure the submissive has access to an emergency release system and the submissive is responsible for knowing where the spare emergency key is at all times.

8. The KH will determine the removal of the Chastity Device' at all times. Removal of the device does not constitute permission to orgasm and submissive will revert to the honour system when not in a device.

9. The KH will always use creativity and initiative to maintain the FLR

Submissive:

1. The submissive will always obey any and all commands from the KH willingly and to the best of his ability

2. The submissive is jointly responsible for his own health and welfare including maintaining an acceptable weight. The KH does not expect to resort to nagging for this.

3. The submissive will maintain a high level of hygiene at all times.

4. The submissive will be respectful of the KH at all times in all circumstances.

5. The submissive will not ask for orgasm and will cheerfully accept any denial period chosen by the KH to the defined 'Maximum Denial' period

6. The submissive will agree to refrain from all behaviours on the 'Excluded Behaviours List'

7. The submissive will agree to display all behaviours on the 'Required Behaviours List' willingly and without complaint

8. The submissive will explain and justify any use of the 'Emergency Release System'. The submissive is also jointly responsible for ensuring that the release system is available at all times - especially when travelling on business

9. The submissive will always thank the Mistress for Her guidance and loving Authority and acknowledge the effort involved in addition to providing considered feedback on any play or training sessions

10. The submissive will always show initiative to ensure the continuing success of the FLR.

Acts of Submission:

1. Total Financial Control will be granted to the KH without challenge or question and the financial stewardship acknowledged with input by the submissive as appropriate.

2. There will be full disclosure of all financial issues at all times.

3. All property other than for tax purposes will be deemed to be that of the KH

4. All cars will be the registered property of the KH

5. The submissive will be granted £500.00 per month and no more.

6. The submissive will kneel before the KH twice a day and re-state his submission as practical

7. The submissive will accept that timescales are always set by the KH.

Negotiations and Discussion:

It is the objective of the FLR to reach consensus where possible when agreeing domestic matters but the KH will always hold the casting vote. The submissive will always be expected to provide ideas, input and feedback.

Required Behaviours:

Domestic tasks - Submissive will be required to use own initiative to maintain a tidy house to the KH's standards.
Anticipation of activities / attitudes likely to cause offence and annoyance to KH and avoid, minimise or justify these.
Willingly and cheerfully undertake various tasks including but not limited to DIY and gardening. Again, submissive will be expected to use initiative at all times.
Submissive will always be required to discuss emotional states.

Excluded behaviours

Childish tantrums and unwarranted moodiness
Sarcasm towards and put downs of KH
Thoughtlessness and selfishness
Vacillation - once household decisions have been reached, the submissive will accept this and not question validity of decision unless properly considered and raised as a point to discuss
Taking KH's effort, input and creativity in maintaining Authority for granted
Lack of input into FLR or abdication of responsibility in maintaining the FLR
Impatience, ranting and unnecessarily negative behaviour

Note: This list is not intended to be exhaustive so if the submissive is clearly warned that behaviour is unacceptable and will not be tolerated, further demonstrations will be treated as transgressions and punished accordingly.

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Female Controlled Relationship
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A Female Controlled Relationship has been around a long time. But over the last 20 years we have seen a rapid increase in the amount of couples that prefer this style of relationship. In fact in Western countries more Women are now in full control of the relationship then men.

There are many reasons why a couple may want a Female controlled relationship and those reasons may vary with each couple. Talk to any couple and they will all give you a different answer, yet the basics are always there.

It has often been said that Dominant women will seek put submissive men. Or in many cases they will seek out dominant men and train them to be submissive and obedient. In a Female controlled relationship it may be that both are seeking this type of relationship even before they meet.

Submissive men have long sort out Women they can serve and obey. The submissive often lets the Woman know early on they are willing to serve and obey under her strict control.

It should be noted that submissive men are often Dominant with other people, but submissive and obedient to a Woman in a Female controlled relationship.

A Female controlled relationship will mean different things to different couples but the same dynamics are always there. Some Women expect a much higher rate of control then other Women. Some men are more submissive then other men. It is a good idea to talk early about this type of relationship and be open about your wants and needs in such a relationship.

Often the woman will set a series of rules and regulations for the man to follow. It is sometimes a good idea for the rules to be written down and posted on the wall.

The control of the finances is another important issue in a Female controlled relationship and often the Woman will have full control over the finances and the earnings of the male. However, in some Female controlled relationships the finances are jointly under the control of both partners. It will be a matter for each couple to come to an agreement on this early in the relationship.

Generally the domestic chores become the role of the man. He will be required to do all the house cleaning and chores. That may involve washing and ironing the clothes, doing the dishes, cleaning the toilet and bath, and other cleaning in the house. The woman may set out a roster of weekly chores for the man to do each week.

Another area of the relationship may have to do with social activities. The Female will often be the sole decider of all social activities. For example, if going to watch the movies the Female will decide what movie to watch, what seat to sit in and what snacks to eat and drink.

Discipline is another important part of the Female controlled relationship. For some couples the Female may administer verbal discipline. But other Women may also use physical discipline as part of the training. Obedience on the part of the male is the foundation of such a relationship. Different women will have different expectations on how obedient the man should become. Any breach of obedience is often met with very strict discipline.

As more couples engage and embrace a Female controlled relationship they are understanding the positives of such a relationship. Other couples who observe this are also moving towards a Female controlled relationship. For those that are interested it is a good idea to join a local community or online community to talk with other couples involved in such a relationship.

Advantages of a Wife Controlled Marriage.

There are many advantages for a relationship when the wife of the house is leading in the marriage. Some of these advantages include ample time to plan and think about where the family is headed. The Dominant Wife will always make sure that what needs to be done in their homes is done at the right time. Since she is already aware of all the work that needs to be done in order to keep her house running she always ensures that jobs are done well. Women are good at juggling lots of tasks at once, unlike men who are always focused on a particular task. In a wife led marriage, the wife decides what is important for her man to do at any given time and after the wife has ordered the work to be done, she always ensures that it is done in the right manner. The Wife should be strict when controlling Her family. When the wife comes to a disagreement with her husband, there is a need to discipline the man. If a guy fails to clean up the rooms as ordered by his wife, he should not be surprised if his wife punishes him. Recent research proved that the majority of men who want a wife led marriage have the need for their wife to control their lives. In our modern world, many women are out earning their way on their own. A Wife led marriage ensures the streamline making of decisions by the wife. It empowers the wife in making decisions and it brings order and predictability to the marriage. It solves issues that the couple may have. A wife who is leading in a marriage always assesses her own failures and strengths in an honest manner. Many wives have the final word in decision making since many Women are great leaders with or without the training. Training cannot make a man be a good leader. A Wife led marriage is where the wife makes decision for the whole family including the husband in a balanced approach that both the wife and her husband have agreed upon to be their lifestyle. Women involved in a Wife led marriage know how to control the outcome even when things go wrong and they are never terrified of any failure. If the wife and her husband are very honest to each other, they will both agree that the wife is the best equipped person to fulfill the role of a leader in the house. A Wife led marriage means that the wife will be responsible for all major decisions in the household. A Wife led marriage helps the men to get over their current socialization.

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Female Led Relationship

A Wife controlled marriage may have several levels. In some cases, men allow their wives to make major decisions but they participate without being totally passive. In other cases, women completely dominate a relationship making all major decisions and men are totally submissive. Ask yourself, is this type of relationship for you? A Female Controlled Relationship is a question of choice. Most of the men are happy that their spouse will handle all financial and emotional decisions. Secondly, it also depends on personality and attitude of your spouse. In some cases, wives enjoy responsibilities while others find it difficult to handle such pressure. Let us discuss some possible advantages and Positives of a Female Controlled Relationship.

Every man can make his life happy with a Female Controlled Relationship. Men love to enjoy fantasies. If you are able to fulfill this fantasy as a couple, he would never look for women elsewhere.

Men have their own responsibilities and are often stressed with their professional life. They will enjoy their life better when home responsibilities are controlled by the woman. A Female Controlled Relationship also helps to bring a couple closer together in their relationship.

A Female Controlled Relationship develops a feeling of equality between partners. It leads to mutual trust, respect and love for each other.

A Female Controlled Relationship can also act as a stress reliever for the man. At the end of day, when your husband is feeling stressed, the Wife can keep him busy with chores around the house.

It may be said that men have strong sexual desires as compared to women. Try to give them maximum sex pleasure and dominate the sexual relationship with your husband. Make your relationship stronger through domination and control. Never let your man go somewhere else except with you. It will make your relationship even better and stronger with the right approach and control. Couples who can overcome their vulnerabilities together will grow stronger together.

Trust is the most important aspect for a Female Controlled Relationship. The man must trust the Female wife completely with all aspects and responsibilities in the relationship. Let her enjoy being in control of the relationship and remember to appreciate her for being in control.

There are many submissive men that are in search of a dominant woman to marry. There are also many dominant women in search of obedient submissive men. The hard part is for submissive men to find this type of woman. But for some they have already found a dominant woman and are ready to make a commitment to a life of serving and obeying Her. Marrying a dominant woman is the dream of many submissive men in life. Often it is a result of a long path of serving and obeying before it reaches the point of marriage. Marrying a dominant woman takes a lot of commitment from both. A dominant woman will have very high needs, wants and expectations of her future submissive husband. Training of the submissive will take place both before and after the marriage. Often a contract might be signed before the marriage. The contract outlines the role and duties of the future submissive husband.

A Total Power Exchange Relationship is something that is common within the Domination and submission lifestyle and a Female Controlled Relationship. It most often refers to a Woman who is the Dominant partner in the relationship and the man who is submissive. Sometimes this type of power exchange is agreed on early in the relationship or at other times it develops slowly over a period of time. It is often that submissive men will seek out Dominant Women. In such a relationship the submissive turns over full power and authority to the dominant partner. In some relationships involving power exchange there may be a written contract on this in advance. The Dominant will often micro-manage the life of the submissive partner. A submissive may also sometimes be called a bottom. A Dominant is sometimes called a Top. The relationship will revolve around the wants and needs of the Dominant. A Total Power Exchange Relationship usually takes place in a long term relationship but at times may be short term. Sometimes the power exchange only takes place in private but in other relationships it is both private and public. If you are thinking to enter this type of relationship make sure to take your time and talk things through first.

Female led relationships are one of the more misunderstood types of relationships. People speak out against it without fully understanding what it is and why it works. The fact is that a female led relationship is a consensual relationship, accepted and agreed upon by both partners. The misconception is that men are pushed into this relationship and nothing could be further from the truth.

Like all relationships, female led relationships should be healthy, happy and long lasting. As in any relationship, if one person abuses their power, the relationship will be a bad one. Women and men who enter a female led relationship do so with the intention of having a positive and long lasting relationship with each other. No woman would force a man to have a female led relationship against his will because it simply would not work. Men who are in female led relationships do so willingly so with that misconception out of the way, let us take a closer look at why a woman would want a female led relationship.

A female led relationship is where the female takes the majority of the control in the relationship for both domestic aspects and in the bedroom. There are different levels of a female led relationship ranging from low level of control by the female to extreme control of all aspects of the relationship. Which level a relationship ends up being fully depends on the couple because they decide together what the amount of control the woman will have in their relationship.

The exact dynamics change from couple to couple. There is no set of rules that governs what a female led relationship is because it is worked out between the couple themselves. Whichever level of control that the woman has, the man fully agrees to it. There is no pressure because the man has agreed. Relationships require full consent and participation on both sides to agree, and that means that the woman has to agree to have authority over certain elements of the relationship and has to act accordingly.
Dominant Woman

As a woman, there are many benefits towards being in a female led relationship. Keep in mind that some men ask their partners to take control and for some women, they might be hesitant. For somebody who is curious but unsure about what the benefits and advantages would be to enter into a female led relationship.

A female led relationship leads to a better love life. Any relationship, new or otherwise is grounded in having a healthy love life. A relationship without any intimacy often will end up failing because love is more than just pleasure; it helps two people form a connection that helps bond them together in the relationship. Men typically take control in the bedroom because society has deemed that that is how it shall be.

A female led relationship casts aside the assigned gender roles given by society and it creates a different relationship. For many men and women, this is new and exciting. The advantage of a female led relationship is that you no longer need to stay silent and your needs and desires will be fulfilled. Your partner will see how much better you respond and since men are highly visual, the more aroused you are, the more aroused he will be. In the bedroom, a female led relationship is both thrilling and satisfying for a woman.

Entering into a female led relationship is empowering. This is not to say that it should end up as a power trip but rather a solid feeling of where your place in the relationship is and it actually helps to build a better, stronger relationship between you and your partner.

In a female led relationship, because the female is taking the lead instead of the male, all issues and conflicts that are caused by male pride are erased. Men get to find out what a relationship is like as the submissive partner and when they see how well it works, your relationship will become more solid. When men experience a relationship in their new role, they get to see the other side of the coin. This helps them to understand what it is like to be the less dominate partner and this new viewpoint helps them to be more empathetic. This helps your relationship become stronger.

Changing gender roles makes both partners vulnerable because they are exploring new territory together. While exploring a female led relationship, both partners find themselves in new roles and that can be scary and exciting at the same time. Going through the learning stages of starting a female led relationship means that you will be leaning on each other to get through this. As with anything new, it can be challenging and when you overcome the challenge of starting this type of relationship, it shows that together you can get through anything.

There is equality in a female led relationship, being in any relationship means that both partners are important and that everybody’s needs are met. Female led relationships require the woman to respect her partner and to be sensitive to their desires and needs as well as her own. This is the same as with any relationship, only the roles are reversed. There is equal trust, understanding and respect on both of your parts.

You will find that you and your partner are more open with each other, with improved communication. There will be fewer arguments, less conflict and less tension between the two of you.

Female Led Relationship

Every committed relationship has a particular dynamic. A female controlled relationship certainly has many benefits and advantages in allowing the woman to function in her gifted position as the leader in the relationship. Women have naturally better listening skills than men, they are more likely to communicate, and they tend to be more efficient planners. All of these traits are imperative to leading a household. When it comes to a relationship, men tend to be more efficient at following directions from a dominant woman. Because running a home does not come with an instruction manual, women have an advantage over men for incorporating various aspects of the family structure as they make the necessary and vital decisions for the well being of the entire household unit. Women also make great family leaders because they tend to be more cautious and less risky in terms of financial decisions. Although not every couple strives to place the wife as the leader of the pack, there are obvious reasons why some women tend to be more efficient and successful as the head of the household.

Roles of Women and Men in a Female Controlled Relationship
There are many types of relationships that occur in the BDSM world, some for play, some for lifelong commitments. Each person has their own set of desires and fantasies that come along with the type of relationship they choose, and they often choose this based on the role they would like to play that feeds into their personalities. Whether Dominant or submissive, a person can consent to a relationship that allows them to live as such, giving them an outlet for their deepest desires. One common arrangement is the FLR, or Female Led Relationship. An FLR is a set of arrangements made between two consenting adults that places the woman in charge, and it allows women to play the role of the powerful Dominatrix and the man to play the role of the powerless submissive. The role of the woman in a Female Controlled Relationship is to be in charge. Some Female Controlled Relationship relationships give the woman power in the bedroom only. Other Female Controlled Relationship arrangements are more total, with the woman controlling the finances, activities, working arrangements, chores and daily habits of her male counterpart. No matter the level of control, the woman is in the position of power, making the decisions and leading her submissive man along for the ride that he so desperately enjoys. Her responsibility is to lead the relationship in the right direction, making decisions that are best for both her and her submissive. She must have a great deal of empathy and understanding to consider what is best not only for her, but for her submissive male as well, and she chooses the best plan of action. The dominant female is always in charge, and she must use her control and power to set the basis for the relationship at all times. On the contrary, submissive males must only follow. Their role is that of a devoted servant, one who caters to every whim and desire of their Mistress. Submissive males are expected to trust unconditionally and follow, no matter where the dominant female leads, whether only in the bedroom or in all aspects of life as well. He may be asked (or told forcefully) to do things he does not want, can’t imagine, or is ashamed and terrified of, but he must put faith in his Mistress and do as she orders. He should also be willing to serve and pamper his Mistress, and accept punishment should he not perform his duties up to her high standards. But when he does meet her expectations, he can hope to find rewards and acceptance that can only come from true trust and devotion on this scale. When both the woman and man in a Female Led Relationship carry out their roles flawlessly, the partnership works and allows both parties to flourish. The woman is allowed to satisfy her desires to be in control, and the man is allowed to let go and release himself of responsibility. Both people crave these feelings, and they play into their personal natures in a way that brings about happiness and deep satisfaction. By playing their roles, both the man and the woman create a harmonious partnership that gives the other what they truly need and desire.

Dominant Female

Female Led Relationships are arrangements in which the female partner in the relationship, whether casual dating or marriage, is in charge completely and absolutely. She makes the rules, makes the decisions, and tackles the big problems, directing the course of the couple’s lives. She expects obedience and respect from her male partner, and she in turn takes care of him absolutely, caring for his needs and directing him towards success. This arrangement is considered to be on the fringes of society, something associated only with the BDSM world of fetishes and fantasy. But a Female Led Relationship is actually one of the most natural, most successful, allowing the woman to use her inherent superiority and strength to guide the couple in the right direction.

There are many advantages to a Female Led Relationship for the average couple, advantages that have nothing to do with fetish or kink (although there are perks there as well). Female Led Relationships can be extremely satisfying, and are often more successful than relationships led by males, simply because this arrangement is more natural for most people. Female Led Relationships lead to more happiness and harmony overall. But why exactly is that? What makes this type of arrangement more successful and more fulfilling?

Most women are naturally superior to their male counterparts, they have just had their abilities and talents suppressed by the male authorities in their lives. They have been told they are weaker, less smart, and less capable, and they have chosen to believe these lies. Women also accept that physically they are weaker, so that must mean that they are also weaker in other aspects of life as well. But this is just not true. Women who embrace their superiority and are allowed to flourish and experience life from a position of power achieve great things. They are capable of anything when allowed to accept their greatness. Women placed in positions of power rise to the challenge. Women possess a natural dominance, a natural capacity for leadership that opens up when the situation presents itself.

Female Led Relationships are successful because when women are allowed to be in control, when they are allowed to make decisions and create action plans, they succeed. As natural organizers, they can easily manage an entire household, ensuring that every chore gets done and that everyone’s needs and obligations are met. Women are also extremely empathetic and emotionally smart, allowing them to take care of problems, even before they arise. They can detect issues burning just below the surface, and they can ensure that the situation gets handled. This creates a great deal of peace and harmony in a relationship. The lives of the couple or family runs smoothly and efficiently, and this makes life more enjoyable. This is a huge advantage over male dominated relationships where the man may bumble through difficult situations or forget to take care of certain functions of running a house. With a woman in charge, things get done smoothly and efficiently, making for a peaceful environment all around.

Many men are afraid of submission outwardly, but deeply crave rules and controls inwardly. The fear comes from the unknown, and it comes from a society that tells men they need to be the leaders and dominators. But most men don’t crave power. Most men don’t prefer being in control. And this is because taking a role of power and dominance also means taking on a great deal of responsibility, which becomes a huge source of stress. You see it all the time. International bankers that have so many responsibilities that life becomes unbearable and they break under the weight of the stress. Even the average job responsibilities are enough to put a huge burden of stress on any man, and this stress eats away at their happiness. For men that are also in charge at home, this effect is doubled. They come home and their decisions and actions there create even more stress. Often times this leads to arguments, tension, and unbearable unhappiness. Men don’t realize that the power and responsibilities they have taken on by taking a position of dominance are to blame, but more often than not, this is the source of their stress.

A Female Led Relationship allows the man to take a step back from the burdens and responsibilities of leading his relationship. He can simply follow the orders given by his wife. Yes, there might be duties for him to complete or difficult tasks for him to perform, but he can simply take care of the obligations assigned to him with little concern for where these actions are leading him. The responsibility lies with his girlfriend or wife, and it’s her job to worry and stress about the bigger picture. He can simply sit back and enjoy the freedom that comes from submitting to the feminine power of his significant other. Most men that do engage in Female Led Relationships find that they experience less stress than they ever thought possible, and they finally feel free from the obligations and burdens of life.

One of the main gripes of males in traditional, male dominated relationships, is the boring love life. Many couples split up because at some point, they are no longer interested in one another. This usually happens not because the chemistry between the couple goes away, but because they no longer take the time and effort to make it new and exciting. Women in male dominated relationships often find this particularly difficult as they want to try new things, but they feel inhibited. They feel that it should be the husband’s responsibility to suggest new bedroom delights, leaving them afraid and unwilling to inject new life and new excitement into the bedroom relationship. Or they feel that if they did introduce something new and exciting, the man would be turned off because it was her idea, and she should be submissive. This leaves them accepting of the dull and boring, even when they crave more in bed.

But nearly every woman has an inner feeling that is just dying to come out. She craves the bedroom as much as any man, and she is as ready to try new things as her partner is when given the go ahead. In a Female Led Relationship, the woman knows that she has the freedom and the liberty to try anything she wants. When the bedroom activities grow old, she can introduce something new to make it exciting again without fear that her husband might be offended by her suggestion. This makes the woman uninhibited and free, and it brings out her inner goddess. And while it is a freeing experience for her, one that she truly enjoys, the man also gets to reap these benefits as she tries out all of her wildest fantasies with him. Female Led Relationships are less prone to monotony, and often are some of the hottest, most stimulating relationships out there.

Another advantage of a Female Led Relationship is the psychological stimulation that both parties enjoy. For the woman, being in charge opens up her latent abilities to lead and control, allowing her to fully use her feminine energy. This often brings her more happiness and more satisfaction. The more she is allowed to use her talents, the greater they become, and the more she truly flourishes. Women experience great happiness once they take on the leadership role at home.

For the men, they often find, once they accept that they must submit, that being submissive fills deep seeded needs. Submitting to a woman can appeal to a man on many different levels psychologically. Some men may find it helps them find that the rules and boundaries of a Female Led Relationship are comforting and profound. Not only does allowing the woman to lead reduce their stress levels, it can also fill holes in their emotional lives that were festering, holes that they were unaware how to fill. Most men that finally choose to submit will agree that once they allow themselves to make the decision to give into their natures and submit to the powerful women in their lives, they find true completeness.

Strict Female

After seeing all of these advantages of a Female Led Relationship, it can be hard to understand why there aren’t more of them in today’s modern society. Female Led Relationships can lead to deep fulfillment for both parties, creating a happy and truly satisfying arrangement that is far more likely to succeed and thrive than a society approved male dominated relationship. But people are still resistant to change and scared of the unknown. Many men and women are afraid to give into their desires and shake things up.

But if men would just give this type of relationship the chance, they just might find that it is exactly what fits their deepest needs as human beings. The more this type of arrangement is brought out into the open and discussed, the more people can begin to realize that there are other ways to live besides those that are entrenched in our collective consciousness. Just because society says something’s right, is it? Especially when the oppression of women has been around as a common theme for thousands of years. If you feel any desire to either be that dominant woman or submissive male, take the chance. Try something new. Live your life as you see fit, not the way society tells you is correct. Because you just might find that living a Female Led Relationship is the most natural, most intuitive, most fulfilling way to spend your life with your partner.

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