Collarspace

My interests are fairly easily summarised - I enjoy everything to do with taking control away from you, and I enjoy everything about CP.

For some people, the headspace of being controlled is highly sexual. For some people, its about having rules and discipline, and needs to be actual punishment. I have a fair bit of experience in both. As far as punishment goes, I dont need to invent fake reasons for it. Stay within the rules and youll get rewarded, but be a brat and expect consequences. Or I may choose to punish you just because I want to, if thats the kind of loss of control that works for your headspace.

Im also a happy spanko and a sane sadist. CP is a major part of what I enjoy and more generally anything which causes pain or discomfort. Again, this could be sexual for someone whos a masochist, or it could be pure discipline and punishment, or in a more casual context it could simply be topping for someone whos a spankee.

There are plenty of other options available for controlling you, of course. For example, it could be that part of your punishment is humiliation by removal of adult privileges such as restricting what you can wear, what you can do, and when (or if!) youre allowed to use the toilet - the latter in particular is a wonderfully degrading means of control. Or you may be into ageplay, in which case of course daddy is the authority figure.

Unusually for guys here, Im not specifically looking for sex. Of course I would enjoy that, and it would always be part of an actual relationship, but it would often be part of taking away your control over what happens to you. Orgasm control could be part of this. If sexual use isnt appropriate though, for example in an authentic school setting, or simply in the context of topping someone, then the session itself is still perfectly satisfying for me.

I dont keep a profile pic on here any more, after an ex decided posting a screen grab online would be a good idea. Im happy to send a face pic andor confirmation if we start chatting though.