I find my relationships have always had a DomSub dynamic at least somewhere in it. It wasnt until I met an openly submissive women with experience in BDSM that I realised I enjoyed and needed it in my life and am actively searching for it.
I want a partner who is naturally submissive but doesnt submit blindly. Its a learning experience for all involved and both parties need to have an equal say in where things lead.
Im a private person and as such Im not interested in parading my submissive around in her collar but I enjoy the dynamic carrying over in to day to day life.
