11/6/2017 4:03:40 PM: I have had a few slaves/subs in my life.  My last slave was the best one who I had owned.  She was an illegal immigrant and spoke no English.  The agreement was translated for her and she became mine.   Over the next few years she did learn English related to my wants and commands, but we had developed a wonder relationship where I rarely had to tell her, she was always there anticipating my wants without me saying a word.  The first few months were rough but by the time she left, we were in complete sync.  Yes I live in a strict HOH and much of what I had to teach was with action more than words, but she learned quickly and was the most attentive woman I have ever known.  She passed a few years ago from an auto accident.  If I could find another where a look from me filled the command without words. 

5/11/2017 1:04:06 PM: I don't play many of the games many of the Doms I have met play.  I hear them describe themselves as true Doms and demand things that are to boost their egos to feel like a Dom.  A real Dom (true Dom if you will) does not need to boost their egos, they are already comfortable with who they are, they do not need to act like a Dom because being a Dom comes natural.  He does not always need to be the one in the lead, but he is the one who directs the leader to what needs to be done.  And likewise, A real sub (true sub if you prefer) does not need to be degraded and stepped on to be subordinate.  They recognize a Dominant and bow to them immediately.  Humiliation and degradation has become part of this lifestyle but only to give false control by Doms over subs and to remind subs that they are subs.  If a sub needs reminding they are a sub, then are they really a sub?  And alike, a real Dom does not need to be reminded he is a Dom.I search for a real sub who wants the lifestyle as it is in real life, not one who needs to be constant reminder they are a sub. 

4/17/2017 4:25:06 AM: I have in the lifestyle for a while now, Owned a few slaves.  I know how this lifestyle works.  I have my own kinks and I search for a submissive who share my kinks.  I also know what a fake is.   If after 2 emails you are wanting me to send money to relocate you then I know you are a con.  A real submissive is not going to join a master who she is unsure will truly protect and care for her.  A real master takes this role seriously.