The INFJ of my user name refers to my Myers Briggs personality type. If this profile interests you, you may learn more about me by reading more on this personality type. Basically I - introverted, becoming re-energised by quiet time alone N - iNtuitive, able to see patterns and possibilities F - feeling, tend to prioritise people and feelings and J - Judging, preferringstructure and order.



AN OVERVIEW OF ME



I am intelligent, with a mixture of shyness and confidence that can baffle some. Quiet, with many introverted characteristics, preferring small groups to crowds, one-on-one activities to group activities. Am loyal, though can be distant at times when I feel the need to have my space, but a strong partner can easily pull me back into closeness and intimacy.



I have a sense of social justice, politically to the left, agnostic rather than an atheist (believing many religious contain a truth in them) and whilst holding strong opinions can respect those of others without the need to convert them.



I have intelligence (emotional and intellectual), a quick wit once warmed up and a non-judgmental approach to much.





WHAT I SEEK



A contradictory relationship with a strong lady who likes to be the dominant partner - that is about the only non-paradoxical aspect of the relationship for I am much better as a submissive - it relates to my strong need for an imposed structure and order in my relationships.



I seek a meaningful and deep connection with someone. I dont share myself freely, so for me this would be largely monogamous, though for my Dominant, this need not be the case. It is though my submission to their control of the relationship, the power they exercise over me that I seek to find a profoundly authentic connection with the one I trust. I seek something with continuity yet separateness, regularity without being stifling, creatively exploring together the sensuality and sexuality offered by a bdsm themed relationship, yet underpinned with a vanilla respect and care for each for each other, and vanilla interaction.



Ideally, meeting at least once a week, though contact rituals etc. occurring between the meetings.