I prefer submission through seduction. There is no greater satisfaction than to know her greatest wish is granted by fulfilling my desires without my even asking.
I would never demand anything not freely given and I would never give without the magic words. I would rather cuddle and whisper sweet sinful nothings to each other than inflict an ounce of pain but harsh words and punishment will be given when deserved and earned. She will know that she is mine and I will cherish her by showing every bit of care and affection that she deserves for being such a good girl.