Collarspace

If the first time you message or chat with me, you expect a Sir, Maam, or any title in literally my first response to you, you will be sorely disappointed. I am not here to stroke your ego. I am polite, but I will not scrape and bow because you insist you are the Dominant in the conversation at the very beginning. Please do not call me girl or baby or any version thereof.

I am an Oregonian originally from TX. I have a lot of interest in meeting and chatting with new people, but I cannot actively seek anything. I am firmly in the seeing what life will lead me to sort of situation. Being married, I will not relocate and refuse to drop my husband for anyone. We are openly poly, and yes, each knows what the other does. I will not help cheaters, if you are not openly poly with your partners, then please move on.

I consider myself pansexual and enjoy geeky pastimes. It is incredibly important to me that a person be able to discuss various topics in depth, and even if we disagree, both parties must be mature and understanding about it. I will not judge based on gender, as I do not feel it makes any difference to how the relationship unfolds.

I am up for conversing with people all over the world, but I am not looking for any more online relationships, I need face to face. I am a switch, not here for hookups, and I am not a FinDomme so stop offering me money for my time. Please no Daddies, Mommies or FinDommes, and if you are looking for a babygirl or sugar baby, look elsewhere.