I discovered this life a few years ago and have moved from Dom to switch,  accepting that I really am happiest when I am serving or being served . It took a while to accept but for me this is the most natural way of life. I enjoy giving a sub or a slave the humiliation and control that she craves.  to let her give up control in order to experience pure joy that come from being used as an object of my pleasure.  Alternately, I can enjoy losing control to a strong woman who enjoys the rush of turning a strong man into her toy.


I'm a white-collar professional, in good shape, not overweight. I have short hair, blue eyes, and tend to lean towards the well-dressed. In the vanilla world I enjoy reading, movies, woodworking, travel. I am a bit of an extrovert and I enjoy being around others. I



In terms of this lifestyle I won't bore you with a list of things I want to do to you or want done to me. Suffice to say that I enjoy a lot and am open to almost anything. For me, it's not so much what is what is done to me or done to you but rather whether or not it's what you wants, needs, and enjoy. Doing whatever you crave no matter how painful humiliating or pleasant is what excites me as much as the act itself. 


Because this is collar me it is unfortunately necessary to say the following. I live in Oslo and am not interested in commuting more than about 2  to 3 hours as I prefer real-time. For you, yes I have a job, a rather nice one so I have my own place, transportation, income, etc. I am not looking to move in with you or need your support. I am willing to provide pictures or talk on the phone in order to verify I am what I claim to be. I am a single dad and my kids live primarily with Mom but are with me a good portion of the time so that will need to be acceptable. 




Talk soon