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Zvengali
Hetero Male, Brookfield, Missouri 
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Zvengali
4/12/2018 5:32:51 PM:     I wonder if all the young women and men who now like to call themselves slaves. For it seems that those that do call themself one, dont truly seem to understand the term such as it is used in this lifestyle.  With all the limits they have, and the age of the dominant, and the location, whether to relocate or not relocate.  Do, I have to obey EVERYTHING that I am told to do, or can I to some of them?  To be a SLAVE is exactly what the word means.  'SLAVERY'....Do you think that in the 1800's the slaves of that time, were able to pick and chose who their owners were ?  Did they get to pick the location that they were going to live, or the age of the owner who purchased them ?  NO !!!....Yes, we in this lifestyle have always had certain things that were a 'given' so to speak.  Such as dealing with children, scat and death.  But, that in the beginning was truly all that a  slave could ask for.  Other than that, you came to a dominant/master kneeled down before him, threw your arms up and claimed that they would like YOU to be their owner, and accepted all that he had to give.  And from that point, it was UNDERSTOOD, that you did what was told of you.  You knew that you have no recourse.  You knew that there would be consequences to be paid for not doing or questioning these things.  But, in the beginning, even a dominant knew his responsibilities in accepting one as his slave.  He knew it was like someone putting a baby on your doorstep.  You had to feed, clothe, provide medical care, a doctor specifically for a woman, transportation and general care.  It is a huge responsibility, that I feel most people now days dont even consider.     Have you considered this ?.....Do you know that you as a dominant, have to make sure that a woman has a doctor who is BDSM friendly ?  Why ?  Because in all states what we do this it is really illegal.  If she happened to have to go to an emergency room for whatever, and they saw any bruises that she aquired the night before.  The federal law requires that the doctor MUST report this to the police, who in turn can come and arrest the dominant.  NO QUESTIONS ASKED...as it falls under abuse.  HE WILL GO TO JAIL.  It is the law.  So, by having a BDSM doctor that the hospital can call to verify that you truly are not hurt.  You as a dominant will not be arrested.    These are things that most men in general in this lifestyle dont even think of.    But, my point here is....if you dont understand slavery as it pertains to this lifestyle, then dont start giving out limits and whiney things you wont do, or the age of a person.  What difference does it make.  YOUR A SLAVE...that is what you SIGNED up for.  Hopefully youll find a responsible dominant / master who understands his responsibilities.    Be a SLAVE....accept what a SLAVE is.  Or just call yourself a submissive and you can have all the limits you want.

2/25/2018 12:52:30 PM:   NON-BINARY / My thoughtsTo say that ‘non-binary’ is a new gender category would require a change to what is meant by ‘male’ and ‘female’ and proof that such a change is helpful in explain something—it would have to simplify a problem. A person claiming such a thing would have to identify the problem, prove it was a problem, then prove that the term “non-binary” is an actual solution that is better than other perspective solutions.

2/2/2018 12:12:23 PM: QUESTION.... Would you really want to truly trust your life in the hands of someone who claims to be a Dom or Domme who is 20 years old or younger ? Do you feel they will have enough life knowledge and skill and really learn the safety factors that is extremely necessary to trust them in all the ways of play ?  JUST ASKING

1/20/2018 9:36:55 AM: Every time you are looking for love, and you're making yourself available for love, it may not come in the package that you had dreamed of. It might come in something completely different. You might've thought, 'I'm going to be with a tall, dark, and handsome.' or 'I'm supposed to be with a model woman who looks like she can walk on the runways.' But, it might be just a little curvy girl from Oakland!

1/16/2018 1:35:53 PM: After forty years of being in this lifestyle, I find it very interesting in the differences between a Dom/Master and a Domme.  In that many Dommes will take on many men/women, have these huge demands that have to be met.  No exceptions or discussions will be heard. And will assume that a submissive will Trust her right from the beginning.  Where she doesnt have to earn the trust, and expects respect and devotion again no exceptions. That it is a great privalege to even get to talk to her, let alone be part of her world.   Whereas a many Dominants have to not assume anything of a submissive for he is not her dominant. He must earn her trust and loyalty before any physical interraction will happen.  If he makes great demands on her at the outset he is identified as a pushy or a predator. Yet in both cases we know that TRUST and Sanity is key and knowing that no one should never outwardly just trust anyone.  Knowing, whether it be a male or female dominant, you can hurt someone just the same....It is interesting when you truly look at both......

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