Collarspace

Im not the typical type of Dom here, and Im searching for someone who isnt the usual sort of sub. Im mature, smart, sophisticated, safe, and sincere about meeting someone. Im not looking for a harem - I want to meet one woman for something real and important to both of us. Im open minded and flexible but at the same time looking for something and someone specific - a complete connection with physical, intellectual, and emotional compatibility and intimacy. Ideally Id like something ongoing, lasting, and important.

Im looking for someone who is submissive (at least in private), but doesnt think of herself as subordinate. Im seeking a woman who is confident and who has self-esteem. Im open-minded about your age. Im looking for someone who is emotionally mature, but at the same time maintains a youthful outlook and energy.

Im not a sadist and Im not looking for someone who needs to be broken, demeaned, or degraded. I can be firm and strict as necessary and appropriate, but I prefer to be warm, caring, and encouraging. I want you to feel safe, cherished and protected.

You need to be cared for by someone you trust, like, and respect. I understand your need for someone who will take control. I assert control calmly, confidently, consistently and comfortably. I dont need to pretend to be strong by telling or showing you that youre weak.

Im okay with something that starts out long distance. We can take the time necessary to explore our fit and confirm our match, but eventually I want in-person and real time. Distance can be resolved one way or the other over time.

I have a good (frequently dry) sense of humor, and I hope you do as well. We should be able to have fun and laugh together.