9/19/2016 12:11:15 PM: A fun game to play with your Dom or sub... Whenever I take my submissive out for dinner, I have a little game I like to play. To play this game, I would recommend doing so at an establishment of which you do not frequent often. Hence, they will not recognize you the next time you visit. So here is the game.... Take with you a writing utensil and a small post it notepad. I like using the ones that are like an inch and a half. Not the traditional 3x3 ones. And while not required, it's also handy to have it in a flip cover so no one can see the writing. Once you sit down at the table, place the writing utensil and notepad on the table. One person, usually the Dom, will begin by writing a message on it directed to the other person. Then slide it to the other person to open and read. Then that person responds and slides it back. You can write anything you want, but it's more fun when you are writing something dirty. Once the notepad is passed to you, you do not have to look at it right away. Just let it sit there for a few minutes while you carry on your normal conversation. Then casually take a look at what was written, close it, and wait a few minutes while you form your response. This keeps the tension building. Keep them short and to the point. In this case less is more. You continue doing this all through dinner, all the while still carrying on a normal conversation outside of the notepad. The notepad is your secret conversation for only the two of you. As I said, you can write anything you want, but it's a lot more fun writing about something dirty. This can build anticipation for what is coming after dinner. Perhaps you talk about what you are going to do once you get home. Talking about something dirty also gives another option to play. When you leave, you leave all the notes on the table for the server to find and then on the way home you can have fun speculating on what he or she thought about them after reading them. Did they just throw them away? Did they share the notes with coworkers? This is why I recommend an establishment of which you are not well known. And of course you have to be careful with this part, you probably don't want to leave them for a 16 year old to find. So that's it! It's really a fun game to play and I hope you all enjoy it as much as I do!