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TL:DR: In search of sadists, non-monogamous friendly, on the east coast (locally in New Engla
Bisexual Female Submissive, 31,  Burlington, Vermont
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In search of sadists, non-monogamous friendly, on the east coast (locally in New England preferred but I am flexible) who are looking to relationships with a masochist. I have been in the lifestyle for over a decade now and is both well-versed in polyamory and kink.  Brownie Points to those who actually read the rest of my profile. 

You may be wondering about my handle name on here. I had been hoping for an easy solution to change it but it does not seem like there is an easy way of changing names. I have begun to leave my chastity ways and at some point, I may start a new profile to reflect that... but for now it stays.

I have to admit I have a huge Humiliation kink. I try to maintain my profile because I often post things that others may have an interest in, spoken or unspoken, and I get off on being “in use” of providing that ination. If you view my profile please feel free to message me. If you are genuinely interested in beginning a conversation please introduce yourself and state your interest.

I am sometimes interested in conversations that won't lead to anything. I am a sapiosexual and although I prefer the natural flow of a Dominant and submissive talking name calling right out of the gate is not a humiliation kink turn on for me. submissive females are welcome to email if they have general questions or want to connect as long as you are not trying to pull me into a "poly-household" by order of your Dominant. submissive males please do not contact me... I'm not interested.

Primarily I am hoping to find S/m relationships that can be an on-going partnership in the area. I will admit that there is some room for flexibility depending on our chemistry.  I not only love an intense moment but looks for someone to share all of the interesting and whacky adventures we can think of together.

I am in a D/s relationship presently, very happy, however, I am looking for experienced and well-versed Sadists who need a masochistic partner. Any play needs to be approved by the Dominant before I partake.

What Am I Interested In?

I have an omega personality in my relationships and I seek others who are looking for an omega submissive. I am not competing for attention, I am not an alpha submissive or slave, and I seek a very stable bond with a sadist who knows they have time for a play partner/romantic interesting.

I am a huge psychological and emotional masochist for the right play partner.  I am very careful about who I play with especially when doing edge play. The right individual will be someone who wants to get to know me, who views me as a vanilla platonic friend, and who wants to share their deep sadistic streak with me. 

In play, I am what some refer to as an "iron ass" once I am warmed up. The dynamics, the chemistry, the ability for someone to out think me needs to be there almost immediately or I lose interest. I have a lot going on in in my life; a lot of things that need my attention. If you are able to grab my attention and keep me focused on the moment then I do want to get to know you.

I am in search for someone who can look me straight in the eye and know, without a doubt, that I am both scared shit about what will happen next and willing to step over that edge when the moment is right.

For quicker response please name your favorite kink-based book in your initial message to me. Those who do not "up" their chances of not receiving a response from me. 

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Journal Entries:
4/1/2018 1:38:38 AM
I'm a pretty intense personality that doesn't suffer fools. In addition to the possibility (I find it a bit of a slim one at that) to play, I am always interested in talking to reasonably intelligent people and especially those involved in polyamorous relationships.  

You can offer me the world, you can offer me "Yessing" to every one of the twisted kinks I mention, it may even be your worse nightmare or your biggest fantasies. 

That's not what I am looking for and the average viability is days.

  • Are you prepared for the long haul conversation? 
  • Are you prepared that these conversations may result in play but probably will not?
  • Do you get bored from meaningful conversations that have nothing to do with play or kink?
  • Do you understand that within the first few days if you start a conversation with me about sex I'm not interested?
  • Do you understand that I am poly?
  • Are you okay that I have an Owner, who is aware that I am on this site, and a local partner at the moment?
  • Are you able to understand that D/s can exist in poly relationships? That no one is/will be trying to tell you what to do? 

3/28/2018 9:36:06 AM
Voyeurism and Humiliation (At its finest!)

I always find the act of seeing the bright red bold of Who's Viewing Me, Admirers, or being asked to approve a "friend" to be juicely humiliating. I have no control who adds me and It's a reminder that I'm really a piece of meat to be admired and watched.

3/21/2018 12:03:43 PM
Like a Misspelt Tattoo (except a Handle Name!)

After learning that my beloved Craigslist has decided to no longer be in the personal business, which is both good and bad for many reasons, I came back on hoping to clean up my profile a bit to attract more sadists in Vermont, New England Area, and Beyond. 

Showing my millennial age here... I feel like Kurt Hummel with his tattoo of "Its Get Better" rather than "It Gets Better". I guess, in this case, however, I spelled it perfectly though.... this gets complicated.

What's in a name? Well... I can say what is in my name is wrong at this point. Not wrong, more like growth. I am seeking sexual experiences at this point, still non-monogamous, and still humiliation slut. 

Thinking you may know me from other places? You can view my information at:
Fetlife under KLS
Seven Days Personals under CallMeParker

10/13/2016 6:14:31 AM
On Bumps, Snags, and Red Flags: 
I have more than one person who has asked how I can still be single after being on this site for so many months, with my profile, and my appeal to others...

So I start having a conversation with an individual or a couple. They seem really great. They seem like people that I comfortable with. So why am I still single? Even though things look great on a screen or paper I can tell, I can sense, when something is not going to work out well because I've been through the gauntlet a few times.

We may have a show stopper early on. I may find you attractive, you may find me attractive, but I am not aware you are attached. It may be hidden on your profile a bit (there but not really there) and at that point I need a dead stop. I am starting to get into an area of Celibacy and Chastity that I cannot avoid. I have taken a "vow" on those two things and I need to recognize and respect that vow.

We may be chatting for a while. We have lengthy conversations, we have daily correspondence, we are having good chemistry. Something happens in your life. Your reactions tell me a lot about what it may be like to be with you during those times. Things happen, things come up that are unavoidable, what we do during those times speaks lengths about a person. If it is something that we can progress through together, have healthy communication on together, be present together then that really is going to attract me. If it's something that makes a person disappear for weeks on end I am going to lose interest. What happens if we are in a relationship and something happens? Does that mean the relationship will be stopped?

10/13/2016 6:08:39 AM
On Celibacy & Chastity:
I have more than one person who has asked how I can still be single after being on this site for so many months, with my profile, and my appeal to others...

I have expectations. I don't use this site just for sex, in fact, sex is the farthest from my mind right now, I look for something other than sex when I start talking to someone.

If you take a look under my "live for" Christianity is on the list. I am extremely liberal as a Christian, if not I would not be on this site, but one of the things I do practice is celibacy and chastity right now. If the two terms together is a show stopper for you immediately, without wanting to know the definition, then we may not actually be meant for each other no matter how awesome of a submissive I may be.

Chastity (for me) is the definition of forming authentic relationships with my fellow human beings. If you contact me while you are attached that does not put you "out of the running". However, if you contact me, while attached, while your partner doesn't know you are contacting others, it does "put you out of the running." In that instance, we are not going to be able to maintain a healthy honest relationship. We probably won't be able to plan things for the future, if you leave your partner then a committed relationship is being destroyed, and I don't want to be involved in that either.

  • Does this mean sex is not in the picture at all? Absolutely Not. 
  • Does this mean I am open to talking about a sexual relationship? Absolutely Yes.
  • Does this mean I am open to talking to everyone about a sexual relationship? Absolutely Not.
  • Does this mean that sex is a possibility? 100% with confidence I can say Yes; Yes, it is.

I do not require my partner to be Christian. I do not require my partners to be part of an organized religion. I do want to have partners who have some sense of spirituality. However, I do look for partners for support in my way of understanding my own sexuality.

How do I know I am going to be compatible with someone if we aren't sexual or talk about sex? I have been active sexually in my early twenties. I know what I like, I am extremely kinky when I find someone that I want to be with, and I have a good sense if compatibility will be there. I would hope that any long-term partner values compatibility outside of the bedroom more than inside of the bedroom.

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