As a dominant I know that every submissive I have met is very different, and in those differences I have found great enjoyment. I believe in the idea that a flute and a piano can both make beautiful music, but you “play” one very differently from the other. As a dominant you have to take that into account and insure that you “play” each submissive the way she needs to be played. How you “play” a submissive will determine whether you just get noise, or beautiful music.

I prefer to take my time getting to know people and understanding what will bring out their submission. Friends first, then D/s play, followed by a lasting relationship is what I seek.

The lady I seek, will be intelligent, attractive, and independent in most areas of her life. In me she will find patience, security, and protection. To me she will offer service and submission, and in return she will receive compassion and appreciation for the gifts she offers.

I desire a life long relationship of 24/7 Dominance and submission, but also am smart enough to know that a lifetime journey must start with a single first step, in this case that first step is simply getting acquainted with new people who may only become friends.