Collarspace

I have recently been reintroduced to the world of BDSM, after a far too long hiatus. I had only just started to explore when the minutiae of life dragged me away, so I still consider myself a newbie of sorts. But a newbie with a better idea of what I want and need. I am married and my husband is an enthusiastic supporter of me finding partners to play with, and potentially establish relationships with. I do the same for him. Im super excited to jump right back in and begin exploring my limits and to find out how my needs and desires have changed. My ideal person is someone who is willing to help me explore all the things that have been running through my mind, and the things I never even thought of. I prefer someone with a bit of experience, who can rein me in, as I can be a little over enthusiastic at times. But also someone who can push me through my initial shyness and hesitance. I prefer people who enjoy talking about things other than BDSM and sex. I love a good debate, and lively discussion is a huge turn on. Im not interested in on line relationships, I require physical contact and communication on a regular basis. And if youre looking for just kinky sex, Im not the one for you. Talking, laughing, engaging in vanilla activities are all part of the package. I am a generally happy person, looking for others who are the same. A great sense of humor, good manners and a positive outlook are all requirements for me. Anything else is negotiable.