All I need is one , the right one just for me. Long term is the goal.

I have things in order financially etc.... and they will remain that way.

Progressive minded in general.

No drug or alcohol issues , clean and certainly sane and safe.

I am not into some of the more unique things , diapers, cages etc, but do enjoy a bit of creative and sensual s and m among the many other delights to enjoy.

I need a submissive that is a natural and not out of past negative experiences.

I start out slowly and with my eyes and ears open to guide me in my search.

I am quite versatile and am fairly well informed on a wide range of topics.

Not into being heavy handed no need for that , that is not my true self.

I do suspect that my location is a shall we say a negative so if you are from a warmer climate I most likely will just say hi if I find some interest, but will not write at any length only to be told it is the wrong climate and so on.

A medium level of pain tolerance is needed. Lactation and and piercings are also desirable. I can do the travel if a two state location works best