11/26/2023 11:30:46 AM: I was asked Recently, what I am looking for in a lifestyle. This was my reply I’m mostly looking for a healthy vanilla relationship where we are compatible and share interests Like eating out together, going to movies or theater, or galleries, or scenic walks, day trips, and occasional vacations where I  have the Deciding vote yet I do encourage discussion, and I’m not looking for someone that is slavish.  I want each of us to have our own valued roles.  It’s a little like a 50s housewife situation for the male in that you would do the cleaning, laundry, and fix it stuff but you also need to contribute Financially to the household.   I enjoy cooking, so I would mostly take that on myself. Keep in mind that I expect my partner to do this out of love not out of a sense of being threatened or Forced.   Rather because you want to see me, happy and make my life easier. As far as play goes, I would be the top in bed for vanilla stuff and I would expect you to take care of my needs.  That also means you pleasing me without you necessarily achieving satisfaction beyond that. Chastity is important to me with my boy. I want him to save up his juices, so no masturbation. Role-play is fun and that may be part of it. I also enjoy spanking my boy occasionally for fun and if he has been lazy rude or naughty, there would be a punishment. But I won’t put up with a boy that just misbehaves because he likes being punished. That would be the end of the relationship. I don’t like stress and I don’t want stress from my partner, I want him to make my life easier not more complicated.I would cherish him and protect him, this includes using my witchy powers and highly developed intuition. There would also be an opportunity for him to help me run my business, if he has aptitude