What am I?
That is the question that I am looking to answer from this experience. In my day-to-day i’m a responsible man with a typical corporate job in management. To women I come
across as being dominant, my latin upbringing has instilled that in me. I enjoy the
stereotypical manly things. I have even explored the dominant role to much success.
However, I’ve got this desire that I have suppressed for quite some time. It’s a desire
to submit and it’s growing stronger. As I have come to learn from so many, porn can
be found to be at the root. That journey took me through the stereotypical woman
submitting to a sexually aggressive man which in turn helped me articulate
my desire to dominate a woman. That led me to the discovery of this lifestyle and
down the path as a dominant. But there were these exception, mostly in the vanilla
world where I attracted these powerful women. Women of status in their respective
right who enjoyed taking charge. Then it happened, I let one of those women
dominate me in bed, and the flame was lit. When I say lit, I don’t mean forest fire
flames, but the type of embers that you see smoldering in those survival shows that
then start to smoke and suddenly a fire is born. For me that smoldering phase has
lasted years and finally I have mustered the courage to give it a full try.
My Interests
I consider myself a sensual submissive. Meaning, I don’t like the extreme. My pain
tolerance is low, but I do think that I can be trained to accept more than I currently can. I don’t have much (if any) experience. Some of the things that fascinates
me evolves around orgasm control, denial, and milking. Something about being
used sexually with instruction not to release just makes me go bonkers. I also
take pride in my ability to endure a long time. I have tried urethral sounding,
electro play, and prostate massaging. I find that I can be a service oriented
submissive, but that is yet to be tested. Most importantly is the mental
aspect of this. I want to be seduced, mentally captivated, and made to
crave into submission.
My match
I am willing to travel locally for the right connection. A woman that is real
about the lifestyle and cares to know me for my circumstances. I’m not a pay pig.
I’m a gentleman with old-fashioned qualities towards courting a woman. I don’t mind
and most times prefer a more mature woman than myself. She can be a switch or
new to the lifestyle herself. In general someone that is humble and honored in her
role.
So if you are out there and want to see if we connect, then please say hello and
the very least lets see if we connect as friends.