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Updating my profile 11302019
Ive spent a lot of time fixing myself and figuring out who I want to be. Im looking for somebody who, if not equally happy with who they are then at least on their way to that point.

I spent five years cooking professionally well I learned how to cook and how to drink. Both have served me well over the years but I rarely have more than 2 drinks in a day and usually dont drink more than once or twice a week at most. Sadly I cook a similar number of meals because theres just not enough time in the day!

I work a full time job Monday to Friday in IT. My week days tend to be pretty busy but Im happy to carve out time for somebody awesome. Weekends are similar but a bit more open. I have friends and family who are involved with SCAEMP groups so Ill occasionally go medieval camping or show up at an event and socialize but its not something that Im heavily involved in - too much drama and politics for my tastes.

I like going to concerts when I have somebody enjoyable to go to the show with. Metal shows are my primary interest but as long as the company is good I could enjoy a pretty wide variety of genres. I love to go out to eat at restaurants theres tons of small restaurants near my house and I want to try as many of them as I can, something else thats better with company!

Im a switch and I dont want to get into kinks more than that up front, I want to make a connection with somebody first and then see what we have in common in the bedroom - please let me leave it at Im very open and strive to be GGG. As long as its consensual, Im pretty sure Id be willing to give it a shot.

Ive noticed that this site seems to be stripping out a lot of punctuation lately which is making for some interesting messages, I promise you I know how to use an Oxford Comma and other proper punctuation, this site doesnt want you to see that though! If I messaged you its because Im genuinely interested in you and want to know more about you. If you message me I promise to respond even if its to say sorry, not interested.