I find most dominants on this page are boring. Please don't talk to me if you are boring. Our brains are complex generally, but if you have any hope of dominating me, you need to be at least close to my level intellectually. Notice I said close? Because I don't think everything in life is about logic. And, in fact, in this specific dynamic there is probably more irrationality at play than logic. Or at least it seems likely. 

That's my intellectual preamble.  My kink? God, I want someone to be worthy and grab control.  I want to be allowed to embrace animal instincts in a way I never would on my own. i don't submit because someone is better than me. I would do it because it is a dynamic that allows us to more fully explore ourselves.  Lucky for you that exploration may involve me being on a leash.