I am a dominant lady seeking a male or female sub for an in person relationship. Age preference is 35-55.  I am not interested in an online relationship, so the ability to meet soon is a must. I am not at all interested in switches, feminization, or another dominant, so please dont ask. Nothing personal. I just know exactly what I am seeking.



What I do want highly intelligent, a great sense of humor, honesty, and a real, normal life of your own.



Instant turn offs pictures of your dick or ass, telling me all about how well trained you are, and your laundry list of kinks. If you message me with this, I wont be responding.



Update: apparently it is necessary to come back and address things as they come up. Please do not message me with offers to pack your bags and move in your first message. That is red flag number one. Also, if you wouldnt walk up to a total stranger in the grocery store and say something, I suggest not doing it here.