Dominance without caring is just selfishness.  A true dominant is also a leader and a good leader cares for their subordinates and often times shoulders the heavy loads!

I am sorry for those of you who dissagree, but I beleive if you are on this site and mention anything in relm of exchanging money or "tribute" then your more or less participating in prostitution.  I am sure many of you will argue that no actual sex is taking place and at the same time will argue that sex is 95% mental.  Well I have news for you then, even though you may not be participating in sex by websters definition, your still having some form of sex for $$$.

Further more, I find the way that a majority of those who sell their services, approach it in a manor that is akin to extorsionism or grifting.  The rest of us should be weeding you out of our community.

Lastly, looking beyond the stigma of paying for sex or arguing that it is a valued exchange for some people. If you need or value money in such a way that you can put a price on such interactions, you're not the type of person I want to associate with.

By "associate with" I mean, have you exist on in the same space as me!

I dare someone who reads this and disagrees to make an actual argument that would make the rethink the idea.  An actual intelligent conversation on the topic is welcome, I like a fresh perspecitve.  However, if your stupid, please save your valuable brain cells for other thoughts.

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My old profile writeup saved for prosperity:

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I am the jack of all kinks!

The information in this profile is expected to be somewhat private and remain unreplicated outside of this profile. Please do not copy any information or pictures for use elsewhere!

I used to have a paragraph here about how hard it can be on this site with people who aren't serious etc. I am finding over time I am becoming more tolerable because we often don't realize just how many different subtleties go into finding a match. At first I think many of us expect the site's straight forward presentation to be a shortcut past those subtleties, but they matter just as much as meeting someone in a bar or on the street. Impressions are made in the subleties.

To everyone out there trying I say . . . make no exceptions in what you want. Be clear and don't bother with excuses for your desires. No need to justify why you want it, its only important to find others who want to share it with you. With the amount of people out there you can connect to there is surely someone out there for you. Even if your looking for a bannana fetishist, cyclops.

I know my face pic looks blurry and filtered, that was done purposly, I like my privacy. I do have other pictures so just ask.

What I want . . . I would like to a friend and possibly play partner to pass the time with! Does that mean you'll be a temporary thing . . . maybe, but I hope to find someone who I can be with permenantly. I am a caring individual and it generally shows when I play. I will push hard but only in the best way possible. I can bottom but am generally a very dominant personality. I mesh well with most personalities and expect the same. I love anal play, bondage, toys, in that order and am very open minded. Hoping to find someone in it for the long run that I can grow and explore with.

If you like what you see, drop me a msg, outgoing is a nice quality in a women!

Nothing against foot fetishists, but damnit.  Can we make it a rule that your profile can't lead with a pic of your feet.  Or only be pictures of feet . . . after all if that was what I was meant to see first we'd all be walking around doing handstands!

How much butt could a woodchuck fuck if a woodchuck could fuck butt!

I am a Peot too! Lol