9/19/2016 5:37:15 PM: Because some people apparently don't know the difference: Sincerity - the quality of being free from pretense, deceit, or hypocrisy. Agreement - harmony or accordance in opinion or feeling Respect - have due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of Therefore, being respectful of someone's beliefs and sincere in expressing one's own, does not mean that one is in agreement with said person's beliefs, or that one must be in agreement to be respectful and sincere.

5/21/2016 8:36:00 PM: So, I want to remind anyone who wants to talk with me that my profile VERY clearly states I am a Switch, not a full submissive or a slave. It also states that I am only interested in a bedroom-only Dom/me and that I don't submit or take on a submissive role outside of that context. It also clearly does not contain any pictures of me, for the simple reason that I want to trust someone before showing anything. Finally, it also states that I want to connect with a person on a vanilla level before moving into the kink realm.Apparently that isn't clear enough for some people, so let me be more direct about when you should or should not contact me:1) If you expect me to submit to you in less than a month of talking, don't bother.2) If you have any notions that all sub missives should 'do X' or 'behave X way' toward any prospective Dominant right off the bat, simply because they identify as Dominant, don't bother. (Excluding normal levels of respect expected in vanilla situations).3) If you plan to treat me like a sub instead of an equal at any point in time before I ask you to do so, don't bother.4) If you are going to ask for any pictures before I have had time to get to know you, don't bother.5) If you are going to ask for any pictures without offering any in return, don't bother. 6) If you are just after play or sex and don't plan on getting to know me as a person, don't bother.7) If you think this being an internet or BDSM specific site means you shouldn't still approach someone like you had met them in an in-person, vanilla situation, don't bother.8) If you think the internet (or being a Dominant) excludes you from common courtesy or respect toward a stranger, don't bother.If you are a genuine and respectful individual who would like to get to know more about me as a person and see if a kink or sexual relationship can develop from there, please do contact me.

2/28/2016 10:42:57 AM: I'm back.I dropped out of social things for a while (work, bad relationship, yada yada). But now I'm back and looking for some fun. Also, single now, YAY!

5/14/2015 4:47:16 PM: 'you are a sociopathic psychotic.' Was (the most amusing part) of the final in a series of messages sent to me by a particularly sophomoric woman who was determined to prove through logical fallacy, shallow assumption and abusive rhetoric that I had somehow wronged her by having self respect. Now, normally I would just ignore these kinds of displays, but I was genuinely impressed by the sheer number of ridiculous conclusions she could leap to in a single message. And while I admit, one of the messages I sent was in bad taste and designed purely to aggravate her (for at that point I was curious to know what other nonsense she could spout out), the other dozen or so of my responses were quite calm and polite and intended to clarify whatever misunderstandings caused her outrage (a futile effort, I know). So what incited her to claim the inaccurate and definitively nonsensical 'you are a sociopathic psychopath', you may ask. Well, I stated the fact that there is not a single 'true' form of BDSM and that someone identifying as submissive (or switch) on a dating site does not mean they are inviting every dominant around to walk all over them. Apparently, to this lovely lady, self respect, humility, polite directness, and and a knowledge of and adherence to one's own lifestyle choice is a sign of 'sociopathic phscopathy', whatever that may be.

5/13/2015 8:59:01 PM: Made some changes to my profile on 5/12. Some typo correction, some clarification.