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(For those who wondered, I used to be on back when it was CM. I rejoined on 2015.)
I am no longer actively seeking a romantic partner. But I am open to service-oriented submissives.
--prefer a clean-cut look but a few tats or piercings are ok...
FYI, do not wear skinny jeans, especially ones that sag in the crotch as that is a complete turn-off for me! Safeword on men in skinny jeans!!! lol Fitted slacks that cup the package are fine but not little bitch jeans.
If you are a conservative Republican (Tea Party style, not a moderate), anti-choice, anti-gay, not environmentally concerned, and probably a few other things I will have to add later, then we are definitely *not* a good match.
The list goes on but this gives a starting point.
As for some of my qualities
I am an experienced Dominant. Ive been in the scene for about 23 years. My personality is fairly outgoing and usually laid back --except when I have you tied up and at my mercy, of course. I am artistic and creative, both in regular life and the dungeon.
Variety is my main kink. I get bored doing the same things over over.... but in general I tend to enjoy cbt, corporal, foot worship --in no particular order. The best thing for me is the connection that I share with my partner, seeing them respond to what Im doing, and building on our dynamic as we explore different activities. There are a ton of other things that I enjoy but I dont fee like listing them all. My hard limits are scat, animals, minors, most blood playneedlescutting, drugs.
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April 21 & 22 I am producing a FemDom weekend in Baltimore, MD! During the day on both Sat & Sun there will be a Retreat with highly focused education classes to help you develop (and find!) relationships with FemDom dynamics! This Retreat is open to Dommes and also subs of any gender. On Sat night, come out to our 2nd annual FemDom United party!!! Dress in your best/sexiest fetish clothing and join us for the biggest FemDom event in the area. Dommes and subs of any gender are welcome. Contact me for more details on both events. |
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I don't get on cam to "prove" who I am. If you want to get to know me, come out to one of the public BDSM events I attend each month. Amazing how many guys can't bother to come to an event. The main purpose of munches & meet-ups is to provide a relatively safe space for people to meet. As a woman, I am definitely concerned about my safety. If you can't respect that (& aren't concerned about yours), then don't bother contacting me. |
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Available for phone sessions this evening.
Sat, Nov 4th is my next foot fetish party. It's happening in Frederick, MD. Contact me for more information. The parties are always so much fun! |
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In Feb 2018 I am traveling to Italy!!! I'll be attending a BDSM conference over there. Please help support my "International FemDom Diplomatic Mission" by contributing to my travel fund ;-) At least 3 other Mistresses are making the trip with me! We're hosting a couple of fundraising events over the coming months. Contact me to find out more or to offer a donation. Thanks for helping spread FemDom energy across the Atlantic! |
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Sandal season just calls for a foot party, so we are bringing out the gorgeous feet of Maryland again! We are having another fantastic Frederick Foot Fetish Party in Frederick, MD on August 12, 2017.
We're bringing some of the sexiest foot models in the MD/DC/VA scene together so all you guys in DC, MD, VA and WV and PA can indulge in a toe-tally awesome time! (We've even had guys come all the way from Philly & Delaware to spend time with our experienced models!!!)
The party website is DCFootModels.com
-- models will be added soon. |
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To the guy who just blocked me after whining time after time about being my slave... And to several of the random writers of the one-line notes that I receive regularly:
My profile specifically says I am looking for someone local, which you are not. You are also older than the preferred age range. You never bothered to confirm that you fit anything other than being open to kids. I prefer someone who will actually respond to what I'm asking rather than going on about how real they are... I'm quite real and active in the BDSM community. I have no problem finding real subs. Just looking for the right one. |
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Spanking 101 class by Ivory Mistress
Sunday, April 30 -- 2pm - 4pm
Frederick, MD -- private location
$20/person
Spanking is a very popular activity, from couples dabbling with something naughty all the way to heavy players. It may have even been your introduction to the world beyond vanilla sex. In this class, Ivory Mistress Jae introduces you to spanking basics as well as advanced techniques. She’ll discuss the psychological aspects in spanking scenes, motivations for seeking corporal play, as well as basic safety. Then it’s on to meatier matters, like utilizing different implements and varying your approach to create specific scenes.
You’ll learn how to identify if you and your partners are more interested in domestic discipline spanko scenes, a punishment session, or perhaps a wild endorphin ride, etc. Understanding these critical differences will foster better communication between you and your partners, creating a rich environment for amazing ass beating sessions!
Ivory Mistress Jae has been involved in the BDSM scene for 17 years. She is an international leather titleholder and presents across the United States. Spanking is such a favorite activity of hers that every year on her birthday she turns 100 so there will be lots of spankings to give out! (And in the Dominant’s birthday tradition, she finds helpful people to receive all of those spankings!!!)
After the presentation, there will be plenty of time for questions and light refreshments! The class takes place at a private fetish photography studio, making it very discreet and comfortable.
Since this event is being held in a private location, Ivory Mistress Jae will be doing a brief interview with all attendees before sharing the address. Thank you for understanding. |
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It's been a while since our last foot party, so we are ready to bring out the gorgeous feet of Maryland again! We are having another fantastic Frederick Foot Fetish Party in Frederick, MD on March 4, 2017.
We're bringing some of the sexiest foot models in the MD/DC/VA scene together so all you guys in DC, MD, VA and WV and PA can indulge in a toe-tally awesome time! (We've even had guys come all the way from Philly & Delaware to spend time with our experienced models!!!)
The party website is DCFootModels.com
-- models will be added soon. |
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Condescending douchebags need not apply. So when you guys wonder why Dommes are short tempered or don't respond to your messages, it's bc we get to sort through bullshit from trolls. Here's a great example from someone I politely rejected bc he isn't local. (Nevermind that my profile is specific about wanting someone local.) I guess I will continue to be selective with my "low standards" and turn down pricks like him.
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Well my dear if you are so quickly butt hurt just because someone is more intelligent, articulate and confident in their abilities and their knowledge of how the world actually operates then you might be then yes I agree, we would not be a good match. You obviously have much lower standards and confidence in yourself if you are so easily rattled by little old me. Run along child. You are dismissed.
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Ivory Mistress Jae is offering a series of "Sensual Education" workshops for women only. These are fun and informative "Ladies Night" events!
Spice up the season with a Sensual Hot Wax workshop hosted by Ivory Mistress Jae. She is a professional educator on women's sensuality and offers a wide range of programs. Why not warm up your winter night with this fun workshop?!
"Sensual Hot Wax" -- 1/23/2016 in Maryland
Heat, wetness, a melting touch… Hot wax can be a sensual delight! Unfortunately a lot of people have bad first experiences with getting burned by hot wax and are afraid to ever try it again. Ivory Mistress Jae has helped many friends re-explore this kind of play with fantastic results. She will demonstrate techniques to make it a hot and sensual time, as well as how to play safely with people who have a lot of body hair. And with her love for the arts, Ivory Mistress Jae looks forward to showing you how to safely make your hot wax body molds into colorful and decorative designs! For an added bonus, hot wax is also used in spa treatments and is a great way to pamper your partner or yourself. We will cover some of those techniques as well.
After the presentation, there will be opportunities for personal experience, individual attention, plenty of time for questions, and light refreshments --including chocolate!
Special door prize of warming, edible, massage oil for one lucky lady
The workshop takes place in an upscale, artistic venue which is being used exclusively for our event, making it very private and comfortable.
http://ivorymistressjae.com/events/
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Sat, 11/07 Come to my class & you might win fantastic free lube!
@ the Baltimore Playhouse
"Fun and Safety with Intimate Toys" --with a play party to follow.
There are a lot of exciting toy options for intimate play times! For this class, we’ll be paying special attention to dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and strapons. Ivory Mistress Jae will show a variety of ways to utilize the toys, as well as discussing key features of each.
In addition to all the sexy fun stuff, she will also discuss safety and hygiene techniques for these special toys that get up close and personal. She will have several toys on hand and you are welcome to bring some of your own if you have particular questions about it. And don’t be shocked if there happens to be a dildo hand puppet helping to explain things during the class! And she'll show you how to play Butt Plug Ring Toss ;-)
As an added bonus for attending, Ivory Mistress Jae will be giving away a bottle of lube to one lucky attendee. (The winner will be drawn at random, but with some kind of deviant process involved…) |
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This Friday night (10/30) I am teaching a class on gags at the Baltimore Playhouse in Baltimore MD! Here is an event deion:
Ever have a lover who won’t stop talking or a brat who needs a reminder to shut the fuck up before they get in real trouble? Perhaps you like to keep safe from bitey bottoms? This class is dedicated to fun as well as functional uses for gags. In it you will be introduced to a wide variety of gags and ways to maximize each one, as well as DIY options for gagging your partner. Eliminating someone’s ability to verbally communicate is a great tool for all kinds of psychological play. Additionally, it can be a sensual way to develop non-verbal communication skills with a lover. Ivory Mistress Jae will delve into all of these, and also discuss safety and hygiene considerations.
$20/ per person
8pm for the class but the dungeon will stay open until 2am for those who want to play or socialize after the class.
Please be sure to RSVP either at the event page on FetLife: Login - FetLife
or directly to the Baltimore Playhouse Baltimore Playhouse Resurrection
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I am so excited to be presenting a new class featuring one of my favorite topics: Cock & Ball Torture!!! The program is "CBT: Predicaments and Sadistic Games" at Studio 58 in Frederick MD. I promise there won't be any blood, but there will be lots of moans and groans ;-) I may even let a lucky penis-equipped volunteer from the audience experience some action along with my demo boy. Come on out for hot mid-week torments!!!!
https://fetlife.com/events/381153 |
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End of Summer foot fetish party! Sat, September 26, 2015 in Maryland
http://dcfootmodels.com for all the details :-) |
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I am excited to be making a special appearance at Gina Harlow and the Deepthroat's ROCK n ROLL Fetish Ball!!! https://fetlife.com/events/367264
Here is Gina's post about the show, which should answer a lot of questions:
I'm in a punk rock band with some very talented local kinksters doing extremely fetish friendly Rock n' Roll shows in Maryland! My band, Gina Harlow and the Deepthroats, is putting on monthly fetish balls with guests bands for incredible live music, dungeon equipment and fetish shows, naughty games and contests, and tons of exotic outfits!!!!
www.ginaharlow.com
This month "Gina Harlow and the Deepthroats" are appearing with guest band "Sewage" coming from NYC. The show is in Wheaton MD, with doors opening at 8pm and the show goes until 1am. Tickets are just $20 each, with a cash bar available. (Must be 21 & up.) Credit cards are accepted at the door but the bar is cash only.
The special fetish event is a stage show "Wedding of the Bitchgirl" --we are seeking contenders to win the hand of the Bitchgirl! (No, it's not a real wedding --it's for an awesomely kinky good time.) Contends will compete in the Golden Coochie Bachelorette Show. Last month's "cupcake cunnilingus" was such a hit that we are bringing it back as one of the rounds of competition this month. You'll have to wait and see what other surprises are in store... If you want to be a contestant for the Golden Coochie, rsvp to gina@ginaharlow.com)
Fetish attire is strongly encouraged Just be sure to keep it legal --panties need to be on boys & girls, and girls need to keep the nips covered. |
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I am traveling to Denver CO around June 24 - July 4. I'll be attending Thunder in the Mountains, as well as offering a few private sessions on the trip. Am open to meeting a potential boy out there, as I used to live in CO & would consider relocating there again. Feel free to message me about a date (if you are single & meet most of the requirements in my profile) or a pro session (if you are not available as a potential personal boy). |
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Ivory Mistress teaching "Advanced Corporal Punishment" 6/11/2015
I am excited to share my love of spanking and heavy corporal punishment this coming Thursday at Studio 58 in Frederick, MD! This class is great for players with some experience as well as newbies. And anyone looking for a little hands on help, feel free to ask me to join you later at the "Stay & Play" portion of the evening!
https://fetlife.com/events/345829
Spanking is a very popular activity, from couples dabbling with something naughty all the way to heavy players. It may have even been your introduction to something beyond vanilla sex. In this class, Ivory Mistress Jae takes you beyond the standard spanking techniques and into a heavier, more deeply impacting world! She’ll discuss the psychological aspects in spanking scenes, motivations for seeking corporal play, as well as basic safety. Then it’s on to meatier matters, like utilizing different implements and varying your approach to create specific scenes. You’ll learn how to identify if you and your partners are more interested in domestic discipline spanko scenes, a punishment session, or perhaps a wild endorphin ride, etc. Understanding these critical differences will foster better communication between you and your partners, creating a rich environment for amazing ass beating sessions!
Ivory Mistress Jae has been involved in the BDSM scene for 16 years. She is an international leather titleholder and presents across the United States. Spanking is such a favorite activity of hers that every year on her birthday she turns 100 so there will be lots of spankings to give out! (And in the Dominant’s birthday tradition, she finds helpful people to receive all of those spankings!!! Plus invites a few friends to help deliver them because sharing is caring after all.) |
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I'm teaching a foot worship class in Maryland on 5/21: The Seductive Powers of Foot Fetish! I still need a demo helper so local foot lovers drop me a line. And if you just want to attend and watch, I am happy to send you more info. |
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I am having a Spring Foot Party in Maryland on May 30th from 5 - 9pm!!! Come on foot/shoe boys, this is a great chance to get close to my feet and meet other really cool and beautiful foot models. I personally interview all the girls who attend to make sure they really are into foot fetish activities :-)
http://dcfootmodels.com/ |
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It's time for another fabulous Dinner with Dommes! I am looking forward to being the host Mistress and I hope to see a bunch of you there. As I am starting to create a new dungeon and take sessions again, this is a great way to connect in person with me. And if you are interested in attending the Women Rule parties, this is a chance to get vetted for them.
These dinners features some of the most beautiful and accomplished Dominatrixes in the DC area, along with charming submissive men and friends of the Dommes. It's a very unique and fun experience which our area is privileged to have. Come out and make some fabulous new friends.
4/14/2015 in Washington, DC. Message me for details. |
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Been back on here for about a month now and it feels like a few additions are overdue. (Not that most of you will bother to read these or pay attention to what I am saying, but perhaps 1 or 2 will manage.)
For those of you who actually fit the general parameters that I listed in my profile, I do apology for a delay in responding or if I have forgotten about you. It works out that there are a lot of guys filling up my Inbox with time-wasting nonsense... so by the time I done weeding through all of that, I am just cranky and ready for a break from reading more messages. Or the ones who write & "seem" to fit what I am looking for until we've been chatting and I find out they were a bit misleading...
Here is my current list of pet peeves/suggestions/cranky venting:
--If you are in another country or another time zone or more than a few hours away by car, I am not interested in trying a relationship with you. I don't care if you can relocate bc you aren't available in person for me to get to know. I ended a long term, long distance relationship recently and am quite aware of what goes into that kind of situation. You need to be able to get together once a week or so if we have a good connection, not once every few months.
--If you are married or in a romantic relationship with someone, I am not interested in getting involved with you.
--If you have no actual experience doing anything kinky, I am not going to be the one to pop your cherries and lead you by the hand to teach you everything. I've been in this scene for 16 yrs and have had my fill of getting involved with newbies.
--Yes, cock size does matter to me which is why I bothered to take the time to mention it in my profile. No, offering to let me fuck bigger men doesn't make up for your cock size bc I want to have a regular sexual relationship with my partner. If I wanted a small-dicked cuckold I would have said so.
--Common courtesy is appreciated! If you make a date with me but for some reason are unable to actually meet up, at least bother to cancel ahead of time or follow-up with an apology and an explanation of why you didn't make it. After having guys bail for various reasons, I am definitely not open to traveling to meet you. If I happen to be in your area for some other purpose already, I will meet you there. Otherwise, you will be the one coming to see me. You will also provide me with your phone number ahead of time and will check in to let me know you really are on your way. One chance, so kindly don't fuck it up.
**** And if you are a guy/girl who doesn't fit anything on my list but you just want to say you like my pics or something, that is fine! I am not offended by a friendly compliment as long as you aren't expecting more than a brief "Thank you" kind of reply. I know I run across some hot pics on here and I like to share my appreciation, too :-) **** |
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| Age: 40 |
| Homosassa Area,
Florida |
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