4/17/2017 9:20:46 AM: Since I get a lot of questions... My apartment in the city is no longer vacant. I have long term subtenants who are working out nicely. I rarely visit SF anymore, unless I'm in dire need of culture. Sadly my last visit to the ballet to see the nutcracker ended in my car being broken into so I doubt I'll be returning any time soon, and that's a pity because I was looking forward to seeing swan lake.  I don't mind having friends in the city, to brunch  or go to the banya with etc. but I'm looking moreso for people in Sacramento area  (preferably transplants as I find the locals to be rather insipid and complacently basic) to meet up with regularly. I'm no longer a part of 'the scene,' I prefer to meet up with likeminded individuals in a vanilla setting. I am keeping in contact with a lot of old play partners online and it is nice to see how they are progressing in life so if I knew you from before, dont hesitate to give life updates. P.S. Stay kinky!XoxoC.R.

5/19/2016 5:17:52 PM: I am leaving the city I've lived in for nearly 6 years and moving to Sacramento with a job transfer. I will be looking for kink friendly roommates in Sacramento and a sublettor for my rent controlled flat in San Francisco.

4/14/2016 10:09:16 PM: No longer looking for a TPE, but ISO a houseboy who maintains a separate place in the city. I would only consider a live in sub/slave if they were self supporting, gainfully employed or independently wealthy and contributed to household expenses, but no 24/7 TPE (the expectation to be 'en scene' all the time is taxing). I would like a normal FLR and spoiled and pampered as the goddess I am :)C.R.

2/13/2016 12:06:42 PM: Yearly update...As of 1/20/16 I've been engaging in a Full time live in TPE with a slave and it is a lot of work on both ends trying to navigate the dynamics. I am not interested in anything else at the moment unless you are VGL, bi and local millenial as I'm considering a MMF closed triad.C.R.

2/13/2015 7:13:45 AM:  I am most certainly real and have been in the NY/SF scene since 2010 and it is a small world and I have met most of the people in it. Sadly, unlike NYC none in SF have been a match for me. I have decided I will have better matches by proactively approaching and sending details to the select few i'm interested in vs. being passive and having to filter tons of creeps, guys with fake/empty profiles or tasteless pics, who constantly viewed my previously thorough profile with decent pics and expected me to feign interest. So there, if I haven't already emailed you, either I'm not interested or haven't gotten around to it. More likely the former than the latter. Sorry, I don't want to waste your time writing an ignored, unsolicited message, life is too short.C.R.