Experienced sub looking for Dom (40-60) for mostly monogamous, 24/7, D/s, LTR. Looking for a sweet Sadist or a mean Daddy in central NY.

I’m direct, self-aware, honest, and cuddly. I don’t consider myself a masochist but I do like suffering FOR the right sort of someone. Power exchange is my kink. I think sex and kink are better together. And I enjoy edge play. Fear is fun.

I’m a curious and emotional creature, and I like to know people and be known by them. Intimacy and trust are big drivers for me in the kink arena. So I need a partner with high emotional intelligence who knows himself well and is comfortable being vulnerable with me.

I am a service-oriented sub with some slave tendencies that can be brought out by certain D-types. I can be playful but am not a brat. I get pleasure from pleasing. Current favorite kinky activities: br**th play, electrical, predicaments, humiliation, objectification, and stingier impact play. I like for my submission to be appreciated. And I’m most responsive to positive reinforcement.

Limits: online play, fisting, clit piercing, sounding, and water boarding.

In my vanilla life, I enjoy most outdoor activities, as well as sewing, cooking, playing the ukulele, travel, arm wrestling, gardening, cat snuggling, pho, furniture rearranging, Scrabble, insect collecting, pinball, and taking my motorcycle out on quiet roads to nowhere.

INFJ