What I like - I take.

Quick note: If I add you to favorites it means I like what I see (or read) and would like to return to your profile at some point. Bookmark, actually.

Since I keep reading people's profiles around here, I guess I'll add something about myself here for other peeople to read as well. That would make it more or less fair - a rare thing in life, don't you think? I won't post any pictures, though - that could cost me my very confy school job. Lifestyle is also out of the question due to the same reason (not that there's any lifestyle around here to speak of). So.. about me? Here's a few things:

I'm in a mostly vanilla (yet very confortable) open marriage, so it's basically looking - not really seeking, although one never knows what fits and where... untill you stick it in :)) I'm open to conversations and I never say never, though.

I'm a straightforward guy - I will speak my mind and avoid lies at (almost) all costs. That includes little white lies and any other size and color. It's not out of any inabillity but out of laziness. Lies form webbings - and those prove to be a pain in the ass to maintain most of the times. I will also joke about "important" stuff and take sarcasm to new levels every day. I have a tendency to not let people know by facial expression if I'm being serious or not.

Kinks? That's a complicated issue. Let's try: I'm all for fairness and equality in my day to day life. I have a tendency to play the hero, help the weak and confront bullies. That brings us to the root of the problem: As all "good" guys do, I'm hiding a dark passenger - and the fucker is pitch black, tbh. He is a sadist and a pervert of biblical proportions. While I have never (and would never) hit or hurt a woman without her consent, give me that consent and I will enjoy your every tear as if it were my purpose in life. Couple that sadistic pleasure with the fact that I am a control freak and the picture starts to come into focus. Add to that my obsession with rules and regulations and you get some color as well. Having a technical background that helps a lot with the restraining/torture/predicaments part should make things crystal clear. And for a final contour of the said picture, add "extremely open minded". I will try anything once (if not tried yet, that is).

I enjoy giving pleasure just as much as I enjoy giving pain and/or humiliating, btw. In the end it's all about control...

I do not believe in gods, supernatural, magic, fairies or snake oil. I don't mind if others do, as long as they're not looking to convert me. If you want to sell a theory to me be prepared to back it up with arguments like logic and science. I get a kick out of calling bullshit.

I have a rule not to adhere to groups and group mentality. All those D/s, M/s, little, Daddy etc. categories are nice and all, but I feel that strapping a label on my ass would restrict my view of the world and also my opportunities. I'll pass. Same goes for the "Lifestyle" social stuff. I'm not much of a social animal in either vanilla or any other setting. It's not a "closet" thing, I'll admit and discuss the kinks with anyone (as long as they provide drinks to go along with the conversation:)) ), but I don't make a habit of advertising it to the public or using it as a conversation starter, either.

Finally: age, looks and genitalia are not important to me, but it's worth mentioning that people not looking (at least a bit) like human females will have a hard time giving me a boner. Same goes for the morbidly obese: if I have to spend time locating your genitals under big flaps of fat or if I have to scratch my head wondering if those are tits or not - it probably won't work.