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ShadowHwk2001
Hetero Male, 57, Alabama 
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 Alabama

 5' 9"

 180 lbs

 57

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 01/14/22

For the longest time I kept this blank, for multiple reasons.

But this is something I have thought about for some time now, and think its worth saying.

When looking for a partner (vanilla or BDSM lifestyle) it is human nature to focus on the prize. Whether that prize is a cute significant other, or the most domly Master, or the sexiest slave.

But it has occurred to me that we would all be better served if we truly considered the price, rather than the prize. What is the cost (financial, emotional, physical) that comes with the prize?

She may be cute, but is she a whack job, that will turn your life upside down? Is it worth it?

Does he seem in control, but is he really just a abusive wannabe who cant control himself let alone someone else. Is it worth it?

The risk is, of course, the the cost is far higher than you imagined, so much so that the prize no longer glitters. So how do you know? Go slow. Go slow. Go slow. Ask questions, ask them again later, do you get different answers? Take the time to get to know something about the person and their motivations.

Does something seem not right? - if so, it costs NOTHING to walk away before you say yes.

Be honest with yourself when it comes to risk vs reward. Beware the price of the prize.

3/1/2018 5:13:13 PM: It isn't often I bother posting anything about messages I have received.... though this one is rather odd.  It came from 'momsentme', and said: I heard they closed the suicide hotline, shouldn't you be overdosing now LOL I am quite sure this person is very amused with his or herself.  Note I did browse this persons profile, saw they had no interest in men, and moved on - no messages sent.  I did attempt to reply to this incredibly witty message - only to find *laugh* that I had been blocked.  So the question is... 'Who lit the fuse on her tampon?'Stay tuned for the next episode of 'As the collar turns'.

1/26/2018 12:28:04 PM: It seems CS is having lots of issues today.  Obviously they have tried to enable some sort of filter on messages which replaces line breaks with 'b\b' or some such.  *sigh*  I wonder if the developer (and I use this term with all the sarcasm you might envision) has ever written code before?  Oh and they also now won't pass the 'h t t p' or 'h t t p s' portion of a URL.Who makes changes like that and then deploys the change without testing?

10/19/2017 2:41:49 PM: Scammers are stupid.  For example.  If you tell them you KNOW their profile picture is one borrowed from the internet and ask them they have a real one.  Then they send you, you guessed it, another borrowed picture.  *laugh*  Do these scams work on anyone?  Is anyone stupid enough to believe this drivel?Suggesting, when they get around to the asking for money part of the conversation.  Tell them you sent it.  Make them take the trip to the local Walmart.  When they complain tell them you must have messed up, and to try again.  See how long you can string them along.  It's fun.  It's my new hobby!  My current record?  One went to Walmart 5 times!  Getting more agitated each time.So sad.*smirk*

8/2/2017 4:44:40 PM: Addendum to my previous entry...If your profile says something like:    my current <insert_term_of_choice_here> is selling me out.You are running a scam, and not a very good one.I've run across more than a two dozen profiles with that wording.  I wonder why?

9/13/2016 9:08:47 AM: It has occurred to me that when I read profiles on this site I always apply the same set of filtering assumptions...1.  Any nickname that has the word 'real' in it, such as 'realslave', 'realsub', 'slv4real' - isn't real anything.2.  Any nickname that has the word 'true' in it, such as 'trueslave' isn't.3.  Any profile that says 'Loyal', is obviously someone for whom loyalty has been optional in previous relationships, but has decided to be loyal 'this time around'.  No thanks.  I mean this in the context of the canned intro of 'am loyal slave in search of instant master who is ready to relocate me today without games'.4.  Anyone who claims, in their profile, that they are a 'true Master', 'true Domme', 'true slave', 'true sub', usually has too narrow of a view of themselves to be worth getting to know.  Relationships are two sided, even Master/slave relationship.  Trying to pretend otherwise doesn't make you more Domly - it simply exposes you for misinformed cretin you are.

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