Collarspace

I am a retired professional, literate, educated, reasonably cultured. I am in decent shape, a non-smoker, non-drinker, and I exercise regularly (without being a prig about it.)

I am a submissive, with some authentic experience, although not recently. I do not believe the details are relevant, but I do like to think I learned some lessons that are

- A dominant Lady is a person and not a role.

- Submissive means submissive, and dominant means dominant. My part is to do as instructed, and accept what is proferred. I am not looking to be pandered to.

- I take pleasure in obedience and giving satisfaction. It may be an indirect pleasure, but it is a real and a rich one.

- Obedience implies challenge or it is meaningless.

I would like to make contact with a mature Lady interested in pursuing a discreet Ds relationship, on her terms. Just friendly discussion would also be welcome.

I have completed the BDSM Interests section of the profile, but for information purposes only. It is not intended as a shopping list. I think that would be daft.

(And for some strange reason, when I edit this profile, it discards my apostrophes)