Hello there! 11 years BDSM lover here extending his greetings to all dominants and submissives here!
I think that BDSM is not about random meet ups and submittingdominating. Bondage-Domination, Dominant-Submissive, Sadism-Masochism.. its all about trust.
I like to build that trust before calling anyone my mistress, which is getting to know someone over a period of time... which is also very hard to find especially online.
I want my BDSM relationship with a mistress to go long term, safe and discreet.
My kinks are
Any of bondage (Predicament Bondage being my favorite)
Orgasm denial
Chastity
CBT
Nipple torture
Anal play
Wax
Collar Leash.