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Profile has been updated in Dec 2019 and still hasnt been approved. Its now into April of a NEW YEAR and still waiting for approval - if youve messaged me before Christmas to present I cannot respond because of the pending profile.

THE NUMBER ONE REASON SLAVES DO NOT MAKE IT PASSED THIS SITE WITH ME is they are not interested in learning about me as a person and dominant. I ask a lot of questions to a potential slave whereas most slaves only want to ask about how theyre going to be used in sex or fetish ways to get hard or wet. While we will discuss kinks, fetishes, and fucking it is imperative a slave ask me questions to see if they can serve someone like me and to learn all they can about their potential owner. Be equally engaging with me or I will stop emailing you and move on.

IF YOU CANNOT RELOCATE or TRAVEL DO NOT MESSAGE ME. **Please note - just because I require you to be able to relocate or travel does NOT mean I want you to do so immediately. As mentioned above - I expect communication and that means it takes time. While I do not expect a slave to drop everything and move I do expect a slave to be able to move. If the slave is in a situation where it is locked into a job or family or other situations and needs to remain in the area to where it is now we are not a match.**

Any potential slave must be able to relocate and travel. Life has aligned and my mentality is that life is meant to be lived and explore to its fullest and for me, that means traveling. I love to hike kayak scuba camp and so forth. I am very based in nature and plan to spend a great deal of time in nature although I will also be enjoying a wide range of tourist attractions and other fun things. As such I am seeking a slave that can accompany me and thus the requirement of being able to relocate. I am a full time RVer and thus why the slave needs to be mobile. The slave must be physical enough to be able to handle 5 or more miles per day walking plus general outdoor activities and be okay with little to no societal contact. Ask me more about this because it will be the main way of life for a while. When I am done traveling I will settle down on private land and the slaves will be expected to come with me because this is a lifelong surrender, not a whim.

I am a trans man. I did not put trans in my gender selection because this site uses it for other purposes. Do not ask me what you will be sucking or how you will be fucked. First of all, just use some common sense, otherwise use Google and do some reading to educate yourself. Secondly, the bonus is that my cock can be any size or shape when I want to use one. I do NOT receive penetration other than the occasional finger in my ass. Also, for those that are more interested in physical appearance rather than connection and dynamic I am right now considered a chub but with all the hiking and traveling this will come off.

If you see that I have viewed your profile I have a level of interest. If I have admired you then I have a lot of interest and likely plan to return to your profile to send a message later but just do not have the time right then. Also, I am really tired of sending introduction messages and never receiving even a courtesy response. MORE THAN ONE-LINERS EMAILS otherwise you will be deleted.

IF YOU FEEL YOU SHOULD NOT BE INITIATING MESSAGES THEN YOU ARE THE ONE MISSING OUT ON A LOT OF POTENTIAL STUFF IN LIFE. Doing a drive by of my profile and hoping I message you will not get you far in life. If you find my profile interesting then YOU initiate the email.

ALL MESSAGES MUST contain some level of substance. If you see your email deleted unread then odds are it was a one-liner. Introduce yourself to me (do not copy and paste your profile). What makes you worth considering? What skills or talents do you have? Do you have a degree? If so, what is it for? All first messages must include your limits and if they are hard limits or willing to push through in time.

I have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years. I have references if we get to that stage. If you have references, that is ideal but not required. I can typically sense bullshit and fakes from a mile away, I have been at this all a very long time, just do not waste my time.

I have a LOT of interests, desires, perversions, and kinks. These will be discussed during email exchanges and, as such, am seeking a few slaves as I know no single slave can provide all that I desire. Certain people bring out certain desires in me. I am many things to many people, a true dichotomy, I am vast and fluctuating and an online profile or even a few quick emails will never show the full spectrum of me as a person or even as a dominant kinky fuck.

I am not looking for love, marriage, or anything like that. While I am not COMPLETELY heartless I am thoroughly uninterested in your woes. I am unsympathetic, I am not a cuddler, kisser, lovey dovey person. I am looking for a full time, long term SLAVE, in fact, a few slaves in a variety of genders so if you have an issue with serving around or being sexual with any gender we are not a match. My big thing is that a slave should not have a sexuality, it is a sexual tool to be used for its owners pleasures and, as such, should not concern itself with things like sexual preferences.

Your age, level of experience, gender, sexuality, and even to some extent your appearance is not a big deal to me. In fact, a slave will have no sexuality because it is an just like a fleshlight to be used and it will be used accordingly by any I desire to use it. My BIGGEST interest with you is how well you can serve me, all else is secondary concerns or non-issues entirely.

Right off the bat I am not your master and you are not my slave. As such, we will speak to each other with some modicum of civility. If my speaking to you (and expecting to be spoken to) in a concise non-kinky manner is not domly dom enough for you then we saved each other a lot of time as I am not interested in someone who bases a serious life decision on the fact that the other person did not type in a certain tone. However, odds are I will refer to you as - it - because, to me, slaves are property and s. If that bothers you then do not contact me as I can tell you immediately we wont match.

Some key terms (not all inclusive - ask for the link to my website for more details since this site greatly limits and censors things)

Piss play (of all kinds)
Kinging, deep rimming
Sucking cock, face-throat fucking (with real cock or toys)
Handcuffs, Shackles, spreader bars, chains
CMNM and CMNF
CNC (but NO ROLE PLAY - everything is for real)
Edging, orgasm control, orgasm denial
Chastity (male and female) and CBT
Pussy and Butt plugs especially mixed with chastity
Cages (including being chained), Put into storage
Nipple Play (giving to slave), Nipple worship (given to me)
Humiliation, objectification, dehumanization
Being loaned out or used by others including glory hole and GB
Protocols, rituals, routines
Mind fuck, psychological and emotional domination, bondage, and fuckery
Taboos
Multi-slave household
Mild to moderate pain or punishment including Flogging, OTK, paddling
Multiple Penetration (male and female)
TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE, Ownership, permanent service, no release
No limits except that of the owner
Kept clean totally shaven (male and female) from nose down
Some foot and boot or shoe worship
Being used or displayed as an ob ject
Forced workouts and or physical labor
Diapers as humiliation

Curious about Hucow and lactation
NOT into gaping or prolapsing or spit or vomit or anything messy actually. I am not into blood or needles either.

4/2/2018 2:40:56 PM: SEXUAL USE:I want it understood that any slave who services me will be serving me sexually but I do not receive any kind of penetration other than a slave's tongue or maybe the occasional finger in the ass. I am not looking for a lover who expects to get their orgasm in return. I seek a slave who will know it is merely a set of warm holes for my pleasure. When it is not tending to specific tasks it will be using its mouth hole in a variety of ways for me. For anyone who have cocks you can expect little to no use of them and will be in chastity a significant amount of time.I do, however, love to watch others fuck and nothing is better than watching fuckers while I dictate what I want to see. This is just one of the reasons I seek more than one slave and in this regard the fuckers will get some pleasure as they perform for me or anyone else I want to entertain. This also means they could be used by anyone else I determine can fuck my toys as well.Orgasms should never be a factor in the slave's life. It should never assume it will ever receive an orgasm. At times I may want to hear a slave beg for an orgasm but that never means it will be granted one. Other times it will be expected to serve to its fullest with never a thought to its own pleasures and it will NEVER EVER TOUCH ITSELF SEXUALLY unless specifically ordered to do so.Again, any slave who serves me will be holes for MY use and should not ever think of itself as seeking pleasure for its own sake. It's best that any slave that serves me be ready to be trained and conditioned to not worry about anything in the outside world and be conditioned into a full life of service focused only on me and whatever I say. As I seek to travel all over it will spend nearly 100% of its time with me in some capacity or another with little exposure to mass public with the few exceptions of running an errand or if it has a remote-based job that it must tend to. Even then, it will likely find itself running those errands or working that remote job with toys and devices on/used or otherwise being reminded of its slave existence.

4/2/2018 2:23:31 PM: Training, Creating, and Molding - whether you have a lifetime of experience or are brand new to the lifestyle I will be training any slave who serves me according to how I specifically want to be served. If you're very new and would like some general advice without looking to serve me I'm happy to answer questions but I am not looking to take on any full mentoring.For any person who states in their profile/wants to be 'made' into a female (or male) through transitioning - such as being 'forced' or helped onto hormones, through surgery, and other such process... I am not here to foot that bill or encourage false transitioning. I am a trans person and I'd be happy to speak to anyone regarding transition and provide resources. If I take on a slave who genuinely seeks to transition I will assist in that process by helping to get it covered through insurance (or helping to get insurance in the first place) or similar methods and going through proper steps to have each stage taken care of but I WILL NOT BE FINANCING a slave's transition.

3/15/2015 10:23:13 AM: HOW TO MEET ME First and foremost, you absolutely, positively, mandatory must read the ENTIRETY of my profile. If you cannot even accomplish this I will tell you right now, you would not survive a TPE with me. Now that you've read my profile you should read My Ideal to see how well you fit into what I'm seeking. While it's always the ultimate ideal for someone to be absolutely everything I'm looking for in looks, sexual adventuresome, kinks/fetishes, taboos, and a personality the reality is I aware that my unicorn may not be out there so someone who matches the majority of these (and personality is very important) will be considered as well. Everyone brings their own unique flare to things and I can be lenient but I also don't 'settle.' After reading my ideal, if you think you're just what I'm looking for, be sure to read about who should not contact me first before sending a message and wasting my time and yours. This will weed out a great many people, I'm sure. Do you think you still qualify and stand a chance after all that? Wonderful, then check out getting to know someone can't be one-sided because this is where most people who have initiated emails with me fail terribly. If we've been talking and suddenly you haven't gotten a response from me there's one of two possibilities. 1. I'm actually just really busy and haven't had time to get back to you yet or 2. You've made the exchanges really one-sided wherein I seem to be asking most of the questions and I've dropped the conversation. TIPS I am extremely detail oriented. This should be abundantly apparent to anyone with a lick of common sense based upon my profile, journal entries, and this entry, not to mention if you've managed to exchange any messages with me. As such, I do realize not everyone is as fastidious as I am but I do expect some level of common sense and attention to detail from you during our exchanges. How you present yourself in your emails is your first and possibly only impression you're sending to me. If you present yourself in a piss-poor manner why in the world would I want to consider you for anything, much less someone for long-term or serious service? Consider this like a job interview, come prepared and dressed well (that means be sure to have read everything I've mentioned above and present your emails neatly, with thought, and correctly spelling/grammar). Actually give a shit. While I am just a faceless entity behind a computer screen right now I am, actually, a real person. Any good sub/slave will know that their entire attention should be focused on knowing their dom/owner. As such, you should be driving the conversation with things that will help you get to know me better. I will typically give some warnings before I completely drop you. I will tell you if you're messages are in poor shape. I will say things like 'be engaging,' or 'any questions at this point?' and things like that. These are hints that you're losing my interest because I'm feeling things are very one-sided. I'm not a fetish and I'm not here to have cyber sessions. While I have no issues talking straight-up about what I want because sex is a big part of what I expect from someone and I can get very explicit during conversations detailing, specifically, what I want and like, it does not mean that I'm only looking to play online games. It means I'm giving you detailed information about me to use wisely if you ever get the chance to meet/serve me. While I am a daddy I'm not YOUR daddy. If you want to use an honorific then use Sir or Mister. Daddy is reserved for my little/baby and keeping it reserved for them only maintains its specialness with the person I'm physically intimate with. If you message me and you address me as daddy (first I know you haven't read this post) I will tell you I'm not your daddy, straight up. I like to educate and enlighten. If you have no interest in learning about the lifestyle, about things I enjoy, about random trivial facts, then do not contact me. I am not interested in people who are content to be idiots. I don't know many doms who spell it out in this much detail on what they like and don't know and how to succeed. Truly, if you message me and fail it's because you couldn't be bothered to appreciate and utilize these amazing tools I'm taking the time to provide you. As such, that indicates to me the type of sub/slave you will be and that is absolutely, positively, not the sub/slave I want.

3/15/2015 10:21:45 AM: 'WISH I WAS CLOSER' MESSAGES While you may see that my current location is set to NY this is actually not my permanent location. With matters as they stand currently I intend to leave NY again likely around January 2016. Where to? I don't know as I'm open to all the various possibilities throughout the US and potentially even into Canada. I do prefer the warmth so I am leaning towards something around the south. As I was previously in NC for a few years I am considering returning to that area, but possibly around the coast this time barring any other options that may arise between now and then. If you're locked into your location but think we would really hit it off and the only thing that's a deterrent at this point is the distance, don't let that stop you from contacting me. If you are able to relocate then be advised that NY will NOT be the end-destination. If you're currently in NY and are contacting me because I'm nearby you have three possibilities:1. This would be just a completely NSA, hook up and play/fuck when we can2. Something on-going with some regularity but you're well aware that when I'm ready to leave to NY that will be the end of the arrangement.3. Establish a dynamic here in NY with the intent to follow me when I decide to move. If this is even an inkling of a potential for you (assuming you get to the point of even meeting me, much less considering relocating) you MUST be prepared to go when I am as I will NOT be waiting on you to get your affairs in order. So, the gist of this - don't let distance be a deciding factor.(Read my other entry on how to meet me)