Not experienced, but feel a need for guidance and direction from a sensually dominant, mature woman. It has been a recurrent theme in my life that I have been attracted to a strong, assertive woman, have taken steps to try to attract her attention, but have then not moved to invite her into my life. It feels natural to defer to her intent or interest rather than to actively seek to engage her in a relationship.

I don't suppose this strategy is very helpful in a competitive situation.

I will add more later.