Collarspace

Been 10 years since Ive updated this profile, so hang on tight Looking for like-minded people for conversation of almost all kinds, and play. I enjoy educated people who exhibit an open mind. Its interesting to me that people under 35 seem to believe that their generation invented sex. Also inventors of BDSM and other kinky s of physical pleasures. For me, I dont care much for the orgasmic sexual aspects for myself. I get a big thrill out of providing myself for the use of, and being abused by others. My wifeMistress has denied me any orgasm (except the occasional ruined orgasm) for almost a year. Im constantly frustrated, but I really enjoy that feeling.
I have lots of interests as well as hobbies. Now that Im retired, I can do things that heretofore have been a bit out of reach or time. I have lots of time as well as many toys to amuse myself with. Im in reasonable shape. From some of the pictures Ive seen online of men in their 30s and 40s, Im in great shape! But Ill leave that to your judgement if and when the time comes. By the way, I wont post a picture. I have been an adjunct faculty member so Id rather not. At least not yet. Maybe some headless pictures at some point though.
My interests are, to name a few
Anal play (novice to intermediate)
Piss play (intermediate to expert)
Tease and denial
CBT
NT
Cigarette torture
Feet and bastinado
Heavy restraints like chains and shackles
Rimming and other oral sexual contact
Humiliation
Bisexuality (orally at this point)
Whips, floggers, and slappers
Household items used as BDSM tools

Dont be afraid to contact. Im not a predator. I like people in general and am non-judgmental unless crossed or you turn out to be a social parasite or obvious fake. Drives my Mistress nuts that I can carry on a conversation with anyone including people Ive never met previously. Dont ever expect a tribute. This is a hobby. A sport. A pastime. Im not desperate.