Been some time since I wrote here in my journal so here goes. Have written several prospective subs over the last month or so and again no reply message from them saying yea or nay. What ever become of being courteous to someone when that someone has written a respectful message to them? If I had been crass or obscenity filled tirade message to them, then there shouldn't be a reply.
Which brings me to this...............I see the same people on here day after day sometimes several times a day looking for a Dom/Master. Some of these same people I have written to in hopes of possibly starting a conversation with them to see if there is any common ground between us. But yet these prospective subs seemingly pass me by. Sure I may not be the perfect match for them. BUT everyone isn't perfect. Only perfect person is God. Sure you have high standards. Nothing wrong with that. But sometimes you might need to lower your standards just a little in order to get what you want. After all isn't this is what negotiating and getting to know one another is all about? Open your minds up a bit when a prospective Dom approaches you..................especially when he has written a respectful and thoughtful message to you the prospective sub. You just might have found your needle in the haystack |