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Thank you for visiting my profile. I would like to first tell you a little bit about myself. I am a 56 year old Caucasian male. I stand 5 10 tall and weigh 204 lbs. I have short brown hair and brown eyes. I enjoy working out, and I have a mini gym in my house including a universal, an inverter, a treadmill, an exercise bike, free weights and all the accessories to keep myself from having the proverbial spare tire. I live and work in Massachusetts admittedly I have been here my entire life. However, I am not married to this state, I simply have never had a reason to leave. I have a strong educational background, including two undergraduate degrees and an advanced degree. I have a great job, with fantastic benefits and a very generous salary. I am not rich, but I am very comfortable. I own my own home which has a minimal balance ( I was advised by my CPA not to pay off my mortgage completely). I also have several very lucrative investments. Some of my past times include reading, gardening, traveling, fine dining, museums, concerts, and flea markets. My friends would tell you that I am soft spoken, respectful, passive maybe even somewhat docile, attentive, and as sweet as sugar. I do have pictures, and I am willing to share when the time is right.

I am a new aged enlightened progressive male submissive. i am not a Jonnie-come-lately to the (FLRs, Ds, Female domination) lifestyle. I am a lifelong submissive. I have accepted who I am long ago, I have absolutely no reservations, apprehensions, or fears about privately or publicly submitting, serving and obeying the woman that I am with. Earlier in my life there were times when I was ridiculed and belittled for publicly serving and obeying a woman, I shook their negativity off by reminding myself that the world is full off ignorant and bigoted people. However, I think that as a society, we have become more tolerant of nontraditional relationships, I have found that people have become more accepting of FLRs.

I am a romantic at heart I am searching for my Princess not a traditional Princess, but a new aged Princess, a woman who is independent, strong, confident, and is not afraid to take control or to lead her Prince. My Princess will be more comfortable in jeans, a sweet shirt and sneakers or work boots than in a dress and heels. My Princes will be much more focused on dinner being served at 600 pm then on her reflection in the bathroom mirror. My Princess will be confident enough to understand that her needs and desires must be of primary concern in our relationship she will naturally accept and embrace her dominant role in our relationship. i know that my Princess is out there searching for me. I know that she will come to me and whisk me off my feet and take me to be hers forever. I am not looking for a one-night-stand, I am searching for a long term FLR.

I take great pride in being a submissive. But I am equally as proud to serve and obey the woman who I am with. I am a very experienced and a very good cook. While I have not prepared every type of recipe in my Redbook cookbook, I am not intimidated by a new recipe. Simply put, I will learn what types of food that you prefer and I shall prepare and serve them to you. There is a clear protocol at dinner you will eat and drink, and I shall serve and clean. In fact to be quite candid, the words woman and house chores will never be mentioned in the same sentence. In our home I will be the domestic engineer, and the words man and house chores will be married. You will read the paper as I prepare dinner. You will watch television as I iron the clothes. You will be on the computer as I clean the kitchen. As you shower, I will make our bed and tidy the room. As our relationship matures, you will become increasingly comfortable with my subservience to you. What you once viewed as exceptional and novel behavior will simple become normal, anticipated and expected. A FLR is not rocket science it is simply a relationship that is based on gender role reversal. When both partners in a FLR are unwavering to the respective roles and their respective responsibilities, the relationship will be everlasting. However, you will have to commit to your role as the superior leader of our household, and I will have to commit to my role as the inferior subordinate of our household. You will find that when our respective gender roles are clearly established and respected, our relationship will become stronger than steel.

i am definately structured, comfotable, open and committed to my role as the subservient partner in a relationship. i want my partner to be equally as structured and comfortable in her role as the authority in our relationship. i do not want to make our family or our friends uncomfortable with our lifestyle, however, I do not want us to betray our belief in FLRs. While it may be difficult for some people to understand or appreciate a FLR, it will be our relationship, and it wil be our responsibility to each other to be proud of who we are and the lifestyle that we prefer. i take great pride, and at times (such as when I am publicly obeying my partner in front of traditionally dominant men and traditionally submissive women) i take great pleasure in obeying my partner. The pleasure I receive when traditional men see me obeying and serving my partner stems from their collective and individual discomfort with a man serving and obeying a woman, it is a challenge to both their masculinity and their egos, it is rather amusing. i also receive pleasure when traditional women see me obeying and serving my partner, i often wonder what other women and their daughters think when they see that my partner and i engaging and practicing gender role reversal in public. As my dominat, you should not be afraid to tell me to do something in front of others IE tell me to get you a drink, hand me the baby and tell me to change his diaper, tell me to go freshen up, tell me to make sandwiches for you and a visiting friend, tell me to cancel my plans to go out with the guys, you get the point. Simply put, if we both know our roles, we should both embrace our roles regardless of where we are or who is present.


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21 FORMS of 21st CENTURY MALE EMPOWERMENT
1)   Empower him to cook and prepare family meals
2)   Empower him to shop for food and household items.
3)   Empower him to launder and iron clothes.
4)   Empower to make the beds every morning.
5)   Empower him to pick up after others.
6)   Empower him to keep the house clean and neat.
7)   Empower him to be financial dependent on you.
8)   Empower him to defer all financial decisions to you.
9)   Empower him to be thrifty and prudent with family finances.
10) Empower him to find creative ways to limit family expenses.
11) Empower him to clip coupons.
12) Empower him to seek products that are on sale.
13) Empower him to be proactive on your sexual needs, desires and perversions.
14) Empower him to ignore his sexual desires.
15) Empower him to look and smell good during intimate moments.
16) Empower him with Family birth control.
17) Empower him to be selfless.
18) Empower him to be completely subservient.
19) Empower him to accept discipline and punishment.   
20) Empower him to host parties and entertain family and friends during the holidays and on special occasions.
21) Empower him to be a socially progressive role model for boys and men.
 
Empower and encourage your man to accept his ever evolving subservient gender role; In an era of ever increasing social progression in which females increasingly lead her home, her family, and lead her man.
BELLAROSE69
 
 Age: 28
 Ny, New York