Searching for someone who has more than one trick up their sleeve.   Love variety, love to be surprised, do not want the same routine night after night.  Enjoy the mental aspect of play sometimes even more than the physical.  This is when the true top/sub connection truly happens.  Love a great sense of humor as well, just because one is bound does not mean they cannot be laughing their ass off!!  A lot of tops just want to tie up their partner, beat em, and then have sex with them and off they go.   Heck, anyone can do that.   I enjoy sitting down after a session and discussing it, likes, dislikes, improvements etc.   Just because sub doesn't mean you do not have ideas or thoughts.  As I mentioned before getting in between the ears of your partner is what it is about.  .  In fact, that is when I learn, learn the mindset, challenges, and thoughts of a sub.   Hope this makes sense, bit tired, way early in am filling this out.