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Hello and welcome to my site.82328232I am a positive man of 30 living in Ume Sweden. 82328232I happily speak withe everyone and loves to discuss interests and experiences. I search for everything from friendship, chat- or coffee-buddies to relations involving debauchery and irl experiences. You can never have to many frieds of all kinds. Most of my friends would describe me as joyful, social, calm, perceptive and empathic.

You are also more than welcome to tell me if you feel like being photographed as I run my own business as a photographer and have experience of photographing both singles and couples of all genders in both sexual and non-sexual context. I have a business site which you find a bit further down but in my gallery here on DS youll also find a few images more directed at the interests of this site.

Sexually Im Dominant with experience of the BDSM- and fetish-world for almost 15 years. Generally I tent to lay focus on the submissives pleasure and my own pleasure lies mainly in seeing the reactions that my actions have on the submissive (hence psychological dominations is one of my main kinks). That all involved parties will experience pleasure from whats happening is as given for me. Then however, pleasure can come in many s. My goal for the main part is to have my partner(s) give themselves in to pleasure, an interest that has made me very flexible in how I dominate and what methods to use. Even in the middle of it I am very calm, composed and methodical and Im analysing everything thats happening to learn more about the one Im with. A process I both enjoy and find strengthening in the long run.82328232

As pleasure doesnt always have to be of a direct sexual nature even a simple spank, bondage or control-session where the submissives physical pleasure is in focus can be interesting in itself, but also games where gazes, gestures or behaviour patterns play a part, even in everyday situations. However, when it comes to physical pleasure sex toys are a big interest, both in themselves and put to use. To stimulate, pushing the limits, forced orgasm etc. are things that attracts me but also clothing, leather, latex, burlesque and other more fetish-related clothing is also interesting. 82328232

When I am with someone that is genuinely submissive and also hold a streak of being a pleaser my more sadistic side can be tempted to come out. Then, focus is turned towards my pleasure, but this usually happens with individuals I really know and connect where the right dynamic has been given space to grow. So perhaps the question to you is whether or not you are submissive enough to bring out my darkest side?82328232

I am also demisexual, and for those unaware of its meaning it means that Im not able to get turned on by solely looks. For me to become attracted by a person I require some om mental connection or bond. It can be anything from humour, social views or the personality in general but without an interest for anything in an individuals personality Im unable to find a spark. However, once lit things such as looks or age doesnt matter. Especially with my experiences as a working boudoir, nude art and general portrait photographer I know that all individuals and body types can look beautiful.82328232

All in all, I have many interests and is always open for new ideas and experiences. In short there is very little that doesnt interest me.82328232Im open to speak with everyone, sometimes it happens that I visit a site without writing but please do feel free to write as I always respond to messages.