Merry Christmas to Everyone!

Are there any truly submissive women on this site?

Given all the fakes, flakes, drama queens, sugar babies and everything else, I'm having a hard time figuring out if this site is really worth a shit.

Always curious to me why people put details about the idiots they've encountered as part of their profiles, yet rarely (if at all) make reference to any of the positive experiences.

If the experiences you have are so bad, ugly and evil, why would this be the focus of a post, or your profile entry with nothing representing anything positive.

As a Dom who tries to take things slow with people, and doesn't start out with rude or overly sexually aggressive emails, it always makes me wonder if people do this as a sympathy ploy or simply because they want to portray themselves as victims.

The fact is, we know there are people with all different kinds of kink and fetish interests from extreme to mild, so if someone sends you something offensive, block them and move on.

The fact that you need to tell everyone about these experiences is a turn off, and makes me wonder more about you then the people emailing you.

What's funnier is when the people who post these profile details, and how they emailed back and forth with these idiots, don't respond to a polite or introductory email I send them.

If you have the time to focus on your drama, but don't have the time to acknowledge someone who doesn't reflect the negative, what does that make you?

Think about it.

Merry Christmas to everyone!

A few points to consider:

• Read my profile - Why am I going to write you some long email if you don't have the interest in reading what I'm looking for?

• If you don't read my profile, I probably won't write you. At the same time, I might. :)

• If you DO read my profile, I may write you. If you don't want me too, use the 'Hide this User' button. Won't hurt my feelings.

Hope all are finding who your looking for.

Be Safe!!

How to spot a sociopath

1. Charisma and charm. They’re smooth talkers, always have an answer, never miss a beat. They seem to be very exciting.

2. Enormous ego. They act like the smartest, richest or most successful people around. They may actually come out and tell you that.

3. Overly attentive. They call, text and e-mail constantly. They want to be with you every moment. They resent time you spend with your family and friends.

4. Jekyll and Hyde personality. One minute they love you; the next minute they hate you. Their personality changes like flipping a switch.

5. Blame others. Nothing is ever their fault. They always have an excuse. Someone else causes their problems.

6. Lies and gaps in the story. You ask questions, and the answers are vague. They tell stupid lies. They tell outrageous lies. They lie when they’d make out better telling the truth.

7. Intense eye contact. Call it the predatory stare. If you get a chill down your spine when they look at you, pay attention.

8. Move fast. They quickly proclaim that you’re their true love and soul mate. They want to move in together or get married quickly.

9. Pity play. They appeal to your sympathy. They want you to feel sorry for their abusive childhood, psychotic ex, incurable disease or financial setbacks.

A few new interesting things for me since my last journal..

• What's a 'professional sub'? - If I'm just naïve and that means one who gets paid, then OK, but that's just a hooker, right?. Or am I missing something.
• Also, for those who read my profile, I want to make this REALLY clear - I will not be giving you money for ANYTHING. If you are mine, and in my life, then the things I do will be based on my decisions and not per your asking. NO EXCEPTIONS!
• Communication / Honesty / Trust are HUGE factors for me. I will expect to speak to you on the phone and learn more about you through normal means. Your fakeness through the guise of 'fear' or 'trust' issues is pathetic and reflects poorly on those who truly have those issues. For those that do have those issues, get a teddy bear.

Amazing how people can make contact and want to chat without having looked at my profile.

I think there needs to be a list of tests to validate people authenticity:

• They don't look at your profile, yet tell you to Yahoo, Skype, or text them
• Their picture is from some other website - images.google.com
• Their description is a mish mash of words that come across overly exuberant.
• "Hi I'm Missy, dog poop in my beaver, love cum eat own me yeah. You can reach me on yahoo at missyeatspoop at yahoo cum"
• They will text but refuse to talk to you.
• They're Profile makes it seem like they would just acccept anyone in their life.
• "I'm no limit whore who wants to die. Only serious need apply"

Well thats enough for today.

Good luck!

Recommendations.. If you have preferences - Height, weight, limits, gender preference, location, whatever..

Put them at the beginning of your profile.

As much as we just LOVE to read through a novel to figure out you have a thing for 6 toed Dommes, I have to believe most people won;t email if they can tell quickly that they're not your type..

Oh, and do it politely. Act like a skank about it and people will email just because you sound like a skank.

Just a thought.

OK.. A few more points..

I am ALL about sexy, don't get me wrong, but there are a few things with people's profiles that I don't fully understand.

I get the 'different strokes for different folks' idea, but these just aren't my thing.

• Profile photo of you fucking or sucking someone off -
• The site name is COLLARME, and most people get the point. A picture of some guy fucking your ass, or cum on your face makes me think you're an idiot, not someone I'd consider being a part of.
• You have some form of large object in your ass/pussy -
• Not clear how this helps make me think your made for me. Maybe there's a kink factor that says, "If you can fit a VW in your cooter, call me", but that seems like a stretch
• You share pictures your gynecologist would recognize -
• I LOVE pussy, but I love pussy that's MINE. If your just sharing it with the world, it makes it a litle less impressive. I'm thinking more attention whore then my whore.

Photos of your face, smile, eyes, build and curves (with clothes) makes me believe you're sexy, but waiting for the right guy to share yourself with.

Again, these are just my opinions, but wondering if some of the women on here consider these things before bitching that they can't find the right men.

This place can be so entertaining:

I can see why people would be frustrated..

• Those who are looking for money:
• Buy my panties, etc.
• Webcam for Money
• Donations
• Hi I'm extremeley obese, unattractive, etc.. but I DEMAND perfection in a Man.
• Those who send messages, but never look at your profile.
• Those who expect initial contact via some long drawn out email
• If a brief 'Hi..' isn't good enough to determine whether you'll even respond - You're an idiot