First off my life is under construction so to speak. I'm a geek/nerd which is a lifestyle that is very sedentary li consumed much of my time with many days behind a computer screen, laying down and reading or sitting on the couch playing video games. I have become very unhappy with my body, not really a self-esteem issue but rather a need to want to be a healthier person. I work two jobs, one a career full time job related to my degree goals the other a part-time job which is more fun then a job. I go to class one night a week bit I'm hoping to squeeze in another three nights of class in a vocational school in computer aided drafting. I pride myself on being goal oriented. "If one advances confidently in the direction of one's dreams, and endeavors to live the life which one has imagined, one will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." - Henry David Thoreau In relationships I am very caring, loving and co-dependant. The co-dependant Isn't so much a flaw as others may indeed see it that way. But I do love a call or text from my partner especially when my life is so busy its always nice to get that text or call that leaves you feeling wanted or missed. Inside the bedroom is primarily where I live my dominant side. This is not that I don't show it outside the bedroom but in those carnal moments that the alpha dog comes out. I enjoy BDSM, role play, furry play and forced orgasm. I enjoy exploring into other kinks as well. I love music and tend to be VERY eclectic in my music taste. I am a total geek for film and tv. I play dungeons and dragons as well as other pen and paper RPGs. I love a good comic book, currently on a big Grant Morrison kick. I love reading books, mostly sci-to or fantasy. Favorite books include Harry Potter, The Magicians, World War Z, Song of Ice and Fire series, The Hobbit, and Zen Mind Beginner's Mind.